I have 2 Macs connect with airport extreme cards and airport express, I can't stream movies too, and I've noticed that when I use the network the signal drops down almost to 0, then goes up again, having a inconsistant speed in network activity. I'm getting crazy about that, I can stream music, share resources, internet connection, but I can't copy large files.
I've tried all the settings, interface robustness, etc... I've noticed that if I switch to 802.11b the signal stay constant, and allow me even to stream movies, but it's so slow if you want to move large files (example movies) from one computer to another.
If you guys find a solution, please let me know!