from memory :
to remove the fun and games button open up reshacker and search
CODE
atom(launchpadbtn)
and you should see :
CODE
<cmdbutton cmdid=40310 id=atom(launchpadbtn) class="TaskbarBtn" layout=borderlayout() AccName=rcstr(60036) AccDesc=rcstr(44030) ShortcutString=rcstr(60036)>
<png localized=false layoutpos=top flip=false idres=809 contentalign=topcenter class="TaskbarIcon" />
<element layoutpos=client padding=rect(2,-1,2,2) contentalign=bottomcenter content=rcstr(60036) />
</cmdbutton>
You can either remove those lines or set the layoutpos to bottom (and that should make it dissapear)
firstly for msn 7.0 you can just use a HEX editor to remove nudges
go to the hex location: 000D1F5A, which should have a value of "69" you need to change that to 00
you can even edit out the text for nudges by opening up mslang.dll in reshacker and searching for the "you have just recieved a nudge" and removing the string (then you wont even know it happened .. except for a blinking light on your taskbar)
to remove the button from your client
search for
CODE
id=atom(buzzbtn)
and remove these lines or once again you can change the layout pos
CODE
<cmdbutton cmdid=689
id=atom(buzzbtn)
class="ToolbarBtn"
layout=flowlayout(0,2,0,2)
AccName=rcstr(699)
AccRole=57
AccDesc=rcstr(700)
>
<png flip=false padding=rect(2,0,0,0) idres=911 class="ToolbarIcon" />
</cmdbutton>