I just recently purchased an Ipod and the first time I hooked it in, it automatically sent all my songs from Itunes ito the Ipod. Now this was before I could organize and condense my songs. After I am finished organizing will the Ipod automatically update the next time I hook it in? Will the songs I deleted on Itunes be automatically deleted from Ipod?

Yes.... as long as you havent changed any of the default settings, and the ipod is set to Automatically update (probabally is, so no worries)