I'm just wondering if it is normal if I see myself logged in as "spidyboy" when I check the site list in "My Controls" (also when I try to edit it).

Thanks in advance.

Can anyone help?

Or am I suppose to PM one of the mods?

Any idea?
Is this a stupid question?

Oh for goodness sakes. There is not need to repost three times within a matter of a few hours. When someone can help you, they will.

I think this is a known Bug which happened when the new IPB TopList was installed. I believe the Staff know about this error, and I think for some it has been fixed, and other's not. Wait for another member of staff, either Toxikk, Timdorr or Sietse or any of the Administrators and I am sure they can work something out. Most likely they will mark this an an open bug message.

Hope this helps, and a tip, don't keep bumping your threads if you don't get an immediate response.
JMann