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#1 Haggis

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Posted 26 September 2012 - 08:11

ok so our baby is due in December and we have 90% decided we aint going to have anymore so started looking into this

i obviously wont get one until we are 100% sure we wont be having anymore

I would like to hear some experiences and comments about it

There are loads of horror stories on the internet but also lots of good stories too

so my question is if you have had one

1. How was the pain during and after
2. was it the scalpel or non scalpel method
3. any complications

Thanks


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Posted 26 September 2012 - 08:14

i obviously wont get one until we are 100% sure we wont be having anymore


WE. Meaning you and your wife? And should the worst thing happen and you split for any reason, and WE became you and someone else?

Sorry to be a dick, but just had to ask the question.

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Posted 26 September 2012 - 08:17

WE. Meaning you and your wife? And should the worst thing happen and you split for any reason, and WE became you and someone else?

Sorry to be a dick, but just had to ask the question.


not being a dick at all, these need to be asked :)

yes We, me and my wife

I had never really thought about kids till we got together and got married

tried for years and then got pregnant so was a really happy exciting time

the what happens if we ever split crossed my mind but happiest i have ever been in my life and i know the worst could happen but as i say never really wanted kids till i was with her :)

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Posted 26 September 2012 - 08:19

Happy for you pal and sorry to ask. Will be off now :)

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 11:49

No one at all?

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 11:51

Earlier this week I heard that it is now a 5 minute process and relatively painless as well. I don't know this for sure though, and I'm not looking into it myself. Good luck with whatever you decide Haggis! And congrats in advance for December.

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 11:53

I think I would vote for the wife to take the pill vs me getting my bits snipped

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 11:57

I think I would vote for the wife to take the pill vs me getting my bits snipped


What if it makes the missus ill? Which is not uncommon..

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:05

Funny. Myself and a few coworkers were talking about this last night. I'd refuse to do it and so would the other 3 guys I talked with. One had considered it but changed his mind after our discussion. I'd say you should have her tied instead. At least that way, you can reverse it.

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:09

yeah she cant take the pill lol

i would rather be sore for a few days then her getting sterilised too as its a more major op

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:09

What if it makes the missus ill? Which is not uncommon..


Then I'd stop having sex, no way I'd get anything chopped for anyone

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:13

Funny. Myself and a few coworkers were talking about this last night. I'd refuse to do it and so would the other 3 guys I talked with. One had considered it but changed his mind after our discussion. I'd say you should have her tied instead. At least that way, you can reverse it.


Nah i feel its a bit selfish that they would put their wives through a major op rather than have the snip

Either that or cowards

For example a Vasectomy you can go back to work the next day if you want to

its done under local Anesthetic and is not even needed to use a scalpel

Female one your out for a week, its a general anesthetic (of which my wife is allergic to) and is invasive

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:14

Nah i feel its a bit selfish that they would put their wives through a major op rather than have the snip

Either that or cowards


You could reverse that though and say it's selfish for the wife to force you to make a permanent change to your body vs a temp reversible change to her own

It's not 1930 anymore, women want and have the same rights etc as men now

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:17

Invasive Surgery vs Keyhole Surgery
1 day downtime vs 1 week downtime minimum

Ask your wife if she would have herself sterilized and tell her that you would not have sex rather than do it

then tell me the same answer with your black eye lmao

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Posted 28 September 2012 - 12:19

Invasive Surgery vs Keyhole Surgery
1 day downtime vs 1 week downtime minimum

Ask your wife if she would have herself sterilized and tell her that you would not have sex rather than do it

then tell me the same answer with your black eye lmao


:laugh: My missus would do it if I asked her to, but I wouldn't want her to, and I wouldn't do it either.

There are things called condoms too, they work (sometimes :p ) Double bubble if you're worried about the 1st one popping :p

Chemical castration also an option :laugh:



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