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#31 +zhiVago

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 09:32

No he clearly fell in love with her as a person hence he went through the hassle of getting her into Belgium. I do not see anywhere that it's implied he just wanted a sex slave, you've perhaps embellished too much from the story.


Anyone with a bride-mail-order mentality looking for a trophy wife would do that.

His status, their age difference, and their difference of backgrounds all suggest to me that that was the case.

And finally, the very fact that he did do this, instead of looking for an equal partner locally, is another reason. It was a pure deal - sex in exchange for a better standard of living of his wife. (What did he have to give to a Belgian woman that she didn't have already - nothing, that's why he resorted to an "easy sex scenario".)

Had he genuinely loved, cared for, and known his partner, he would have spotted "her" infidelity and true identity long ago. Possibly, if he did love "her", "she" wouldn't need a reason to cheat or it would be extremely difficult for "her" to pull it off as he would have had her attention all the time. So, I conclude, he only cared for himself and should have known better. Yes, he was naive and he was used by a scammer, but that's just life. He put himself into such a situation and is fully responsible for 19 years he has wasted. I have no pity for him.


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Posted 28 November 2012 - 09:45

surely it wouldnt matter .... the feelings were for the woman he pretended to be ....not the man he is

then it obviously wasn't true love to begin with. if you truly love someone it's for their personality, not their body

No he clearly fell in love with her as a person hence he went through the hassle of getting her into Belgium. I do not see anywhere that it's implied he just wanted a sex slave, you've perhaps embellished too much from the story. If she was disingenuous with her intentions at the start then yes he was a fool.

if he had truly fell in love with her as a person he wouldn't care if she had turned out to be a guy
if something so miniscule can ruin your 19 year relationship then something is wrong and it was probably never true love to begin with

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 10:06

Damn, I barely could read those two pages and the amount of stupid opinions (yes, you read that right) is intense.

You take your guess who this is directed at.

By the way, I think the fact she cheated on him apparently is multiple times worse than covering up a body you never identified with.

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#34 Xoligy

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 10:14

20years younger, sounds to me like he paid for her, id start a dispute with paypal goods are not as advertised :p lol

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 10:34

How did they have sex and him not notice?


Cos she had an "inny" not and "outty"

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 10:41

sounds like bum information to me :shifty:

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 11:06

I have watched Maury we have guess who is a d00d and who is not and I am always correct which-is-which.

I know a d00d and I know a girl.

It's my male instinct.

I don't care how much others might think how fit an ex-d00d is and is now a girl.

I do not want a sex change.

I asked my girl, that if she would hit a girl, would she hit a lady boy, ''hell no'' was the answer; ''I want a woman that was born a woman and is a woman''.

I digress.

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 11:09

I have watched Maury we have guess who is a d00d and who is not and I am always correct which-is-which.

I know a d00d and I know a girl.

It's my male instinct.

I don't care how much others might think how fit an ex-d00d is and is now a girl.

I do not want a sex change.

I asked my girl, that if she would hit a girl, would she hit a lady boy, ''hell no'' was the answer; ''I want a woman that was born a woman and is a woman''.

I digress.


Are we supposed to bow down to your superior ability to disrespect transgender individuals? There are many that even with your superpowers you would not be able to identify and claiming so only makes you appear foolish

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 13:35

then it obviously wasn't true love to begin with. if you truly love someone it's for their personality, not their body

if he had truly fell in love with her as a person he wouldn't care if she had turned out to be a guy
if something so miniscule can ruin your 19 year relationship then something is wrong and it was probably never true love to begin with



surely when you love someone one a lie like this can destroy you ? or you can consider that everything else is a lie .... you can love someone but know when its stupid to stay with them or even try

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 13:45

I have watched Maury we have guess who is a d00d and who is not and I am always correct which-is-which.

I know a d00d and I know a girl.

It's my male instinct.


The other possibility is that you've watched a bit too much shemale porn. :shiftyninja:

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 13:51

I have watched Maury we have guess who is a d00d and who is not and I am always correct which-is-which.

I know a d00d and I know a girl.

It's my male instinct.

I don't care how much others might think how fit an ex-d00d is and is now a girl.

I do not want a sex change.

I asked my girl, that if she would hit a girl, would she hit a lady boy, ''hell no'' was the answer; ''I want a woman that was born a woman and is a woman''.

I digress.

From reading that I think you have a problem. Your girl wants another girl, leaving you to be the 3rd wheel :rofl:

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 13:52

I can't believe no one hasn't posted this..



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Posted 28 November 2012 - 14:00

I have watched Maury we have guess who is a d00d and who is not and I am always correct which-is-which. I know a d00d and I know a girl. It's my male instinct. I don't care how much others might think how fit an ex-d00d is and is now a girl. I do not want a sex change. I asked my girl, that if she would hit a girl, would she hit a lady boy, ''hell no'' was the answer; ''I want a woman that was born a woman and is a woman''. I digress.

I'm a transsexual (sans surgery, feel free to have a go at this, too please) and I must say I'm pretty offended.

I'm happy not to have to deal with people like you in real life.


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Posted 28 November 2012 - 14:30

I'm a transsexual (sans surgery, feel free to have a go at this, too please) and I must say I'm pretty offended.

I'm happy not to have to deal with people like you in real life.


Good for you! It's really sad that people have a problem with it in this day and age but so many people are highly intolerant of people who are different to them. Personally I like to express myself through clothing - usually colourful and unconventional - and it's sad that when I'm walking about there are people who shout abuse at me. It's the same when I ride my unicycle out and about, though I get dramatically more positive responses and complements for that.

It's a shame that people can't just leave others to be themselves.

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Posted 28 November 2012 - 14:42

I'm a transsexual (sans surgery, feel free to have a go at this, too please) and I must say I'm pretty offended.

I'm happy not to have to deal with people like you in real life.


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OMG i feel so repulsed, i'm never reading any of your posts ever again! you're on my permanent ignore list! it's people like you scumbags of society! DIE, BURN IN FIREY CHRISTIAN Hell.. seriously, really, really BAD joke :p :blush: All of my love to you mate!

Really cool of you to be so cool about yourself :) The world would be a really happier place if we accepted each other.

I'm not really a "believer" But this is an obligated read for all those in this thread who have issues with accepting others ( be it, race, religion, sex etc.).

http://andrewschwab....ceptance-peace/

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