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Police think that means Rader and the girl started having sex when she was 14 ...

Unless the girl directly said she had sex, the police shouldn't be assuming anything besides her having been tattooed.

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Unless the girl directly said she had sex, the police shouldn't be assuming anything besides her having been tattooed.

BUT THINK OF TEH CHIDLREN111115643611

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Guys is at fault, but not completely to blame. The girl lied about her age and these days, some 13 year olds look 20.

I've seen several 16 year-olds that look 12 -- and vice-versa.

Me to. I have a friend that is 44 years old. She looks 32. Cannot tell age by looks these days...well, some people you can...some you cannot.

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He's screwed, he'll probably do jail time and be listed as a sexual offender.

Regardless of her not telling him her age, he took advantage of a minor, therefore he must suffer the consequences.

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He's screwed, he'll probably do jail time and be listed as a sexual offender.

Regardless of her not telling him her age, he took advantage of a minor, therefore he must suffer the consequences.

No, he shouldn't, but he will. Sadly insurance looks at fault and it's usually decided with 51% being the losers fault. This guy is maybe 5-10% at fault, but will get all the punishment.

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Pics or didn't happen.

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My god, what are you? 80?

What's maturity? Such an obsolete word, just as morality. How's a tat immoral?

Also, you missed the part where the guy did ask the girl her age, she lied. Why should he introduce himself to her parents? It was just a sexual relationship, yeah, that would be great 'Hi sir, nice to meet you, I'm doing your daughter'.

To say he has full responsibility is not only stupid, is sexist. She is as guilty if not more.

Putting aside the legal and moral issues for a moment, even if he believed every word she said and assumed she was a bit over 18 years old, most girls around that age are still either living with their parents or partly supported by their parents, going through college. In that case, there still would have been basic issues of respect and respecting boundaries. Of course, he didn't know what the truth was, but he should have been skeptical of everything she said, because there was no way he could trust her to be honest, and just avoided the relationship entirely. That would have shown maturity.

Instead, he readily believed everything she said, no matter how suspect it was, because he was being led around by his penis and blinded by his lust for her. That's what the moral issue was.

The girl was immature also, but she was 14 and people expect 14 year olds to be immature. Has nothing to do with her sex.

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You missed the part where she did NOT tell her her correct age?

im with you... im sorry some girls do look older then they are while others look younger ... thats why we have ID if we all looked the age we are then we wouldnt need it would we...

Putting aside the legal and moral issues for a moment, even if he believed every word she said and assumed she was a bit over 18 years old, most girls around that age are still either living with their parents or partly supported by their parents, going through college. In that case, there still would have been basic issues of respect and respecting boundaries. Of course, he didn't know what the truth was, but he should have been skeptical of everything she said, because there was no way he could trust her to be honest, and just avoided the relationship entirely. That would have shown maturity.

Instead, he readily believed everything she said, no matter how suspect it was, because he was being led around by his penis and blinded by his lust for her. That's what the moral issue was.

The girl was immature also, but she was 14 and people expect 14 year olds to be immature. Has nothing to do with her sex.

I agree with what you say, but the average IQ is 100 and dropping ... he could just be really thick...

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im with you... im sorry some girls do look older then they are while others look younger ... thats why we have ID if we all looked the age we are then we wouldnt need it would we...

I agree with what you say, but the average IQ is 100 and dropping ... he could just be really thick...

People, try picking up chicks by first asking them for their ID, it always works. :)

Also my dad is 10 years older than my mom, when they met she was 18 and he was 28... nothing scummy about it, I bet you he didn't ID her either. But OMG when she was 14 when he was 24, he must has something wrong with him!

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People, try picking up chicks by first asking them for their ID, it always works. :)

Also my dad is 10 years older than my mom, when they met she was 18 and he was 28... nothing scummy about it, I bet you he didn't ID her either. But OMG when she was 14 when he was 24, he must has something wrong with him!

Agreed.

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I agree with what you say, but the average IQ is 100 and dropping ... he could just be really thick...

that must have been one of the dumbest things I've heard this week

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However, the victim also told police she never told Rader her true age.

It doesn't matter. They will crucify him.

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If I heard from the girl that she willingly and repeatedly had sex with the man, it would be not guilty from me.

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Disgusting. This guy should get an express pass to the needle chair.

i am torn on this one...if it was consensual.... 15 year old girls have sex with people all the time (which I don't agree with), but in honesty if she chose to have him, or a 15 year old boy, what's the difference. Some societies frown on the age thing... maybe that's the last great discrimination - minorism.

People, try picking up chicks by first asking them for their ID, it always works. :)

Also my dad is 10 years older than my mom, when they met she was 18 and he was 28... nothing scummy about it, I bet you he didn't ID her either. But OMG when she was 14 when he was 24, he must has something wrong with him!

Yeah, I am only 7 years older then my wife, but sometimes I talk about things I was doing at 19 and in my early 20's and she's like umm I was 12. I feel slightly dirty cause I have been conditioned by society... then I realize I wasn't actually with her then and we are golden. Though, we joke that I am so lucky I didn't meet her when she was 15 or 16... I'd still be in jail we think hahaha

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In the UK, once they're above 14, we generally don't bother to prosecute unless it was actual rape rather than just underage sex. There are more important things to worry about than what 14+ year olds are getting up to willingly.

Not that I don't think there's gotta be rather a lot wrong with an adult to want someone that's 14/15 years old. There's just little point in prosecuting over a consensual relationship.

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I don't mind we date underage girls we want, right?

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Ask the parents? Are you people still living in the 50's? I mean, sure I'll have a "talk" with my girlfriends father when I have plans to marry the girl but asking consent to have sex? Have you lost your mind?

If the girl lied about her age then she's the one who should be blamed (the tattoo aside).

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Entrapment. Neither the girl or the detective told him her real age. Plain and simple.

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It's not so much that they did it that skeeves me out (even though that's pretty scummy), but that he tattooed his name on her woowoo? Gross.

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