if your BMI registers as obese ... accounting muscle mass or not... YOU ARE OBESE ... I hate fat children... what is the point ? your life has pretty much been ruined normally thanks to bad parenting ...
gah seriously one of my pet peeves is people not accepting that they or their child is FAT... they are so lazy they cannot even be bothered to open their eyes let alone get of the couch .. walking to the fridge and back or walking to school is not active .. grrr *sorry for my odd rant*
Bad parenting or not, why put so much effort and thought into how you feel about someone else being fat? why do you even care, it's someone else it has no barring on you
It sounds to me like you're hating on yourself and trying to shift blame of your problems to your parents, if that's so, your life is only ruined if you give up and blame other people
and never try.
And while generally and technically true, if according to the BMI scale you're obese, you are, but are you unhealthly? that's the difference, the BMI scale doesn't distinguish between fat and lean mass
That's where the flaw in the BMI scale lies, according to the BMI scale Hugh Jackman in the Wolverine movie was overweight, add another 20lbs of muscle and he's obese.