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#31 +warwagon

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 19:46

Yeah I would except that type of phrase from the facebook photography stalker :shifty:


It's not stalking when their pictures are posted on your feed :)


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Posted 07 May 2013 - 19:49

What's creepy? I'm a nice guy. Nothing to get creeped out about.


Don't they all say that. Who in this world would willingly admit to be a creep?

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 19:59

Don't they all say that. Who in this world would willingly admit to be a creep?


That's a strong generalization. A guy wants to meet women and that alone makes him a creep. Nice. :rolleyes:

I'm not some guy that wants to go to a mall and find a woman to spank in the butt or stalk or anything like that. I just want to be friendly and maybe a relationship will happen. People don't find their significant other by just sitting at home. They have to go out there in order to do that. So, my question is... how? Mall? I'm not trying to be creepy. I'm just trying to help myself so I'm not 60 years old and still single.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:02

That's a strong generalization. A guy wants to meet women and that alone makes him a creep. Nice. :rolleyes:

I'm not some guy that wants to go to a mall and find a woman to spank in the butt or stalk or anything like that. I just want to be friendly and maybe a relationship will happen. People don't find their significant other by just sitting at home. They have to go out there in order to do that. So, my question is... how? Mall? I'm not trying to be creepy. I'm just trying to help myself so I'm not 60 years old and still single.


If you need advice from a forum, you are creepy brah, you just don't know that. ;)
Just re-think the position in which you are now, because this is why you are even asking advice.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:06

It's not stalking when their pictures are posted on your feed :)


I don't know facebook, so stalking :p

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:09

bars are horrible. you get drunks and drama queens.
malls CAN be good. don't hit on the shoppers, they are typically spoiled brats. Hit on the over worked and under paid staff. and what ever you do don't forge a relationship with any woman who doesn't have a good relationship with her father, preferably in an in-tact family.

er, what? My father left when I was a kid, so that automatically makes me a bad person and partner? How very rude. :no:

Anyway, OP, check the replies here, especially from Astra.Xtreme and DirtyLarry. They had very good and thorough answers that I agree with. :) Most of all just remember that women are people too, not just pretty things for you to sleep with (lol). Think of each person you meet as another individual just like you, with hopes and fears and uncertainties and quirks and goals and etc. Will make the whole experience more rewarding.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:18

If you need advice from a forum, you are creepy brah, you just don't know that. ;)
Just re-think the position in which you are now, because this is why you are even asking advice.


I'm asking advice on a forum because I figured someone here might give me a sensible answer. This is why I said in my first post that I didn't want that "go to a bar" response, but people keep telling me that. Not only do I not drink, but I'm also not that kind of person who goes wild like that.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:22

Meetup.com

Join groups.

Do things you enjoy doing.

You'll meet women this way

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:22

Depends...keep an eye on which stores they go in to first...

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:23

. Most of all just remember that women are people too, not just pretty things for you to sleep with (lol).

:laugh:

That made laugh so hard... but it is entirely true.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 20:43

As far as meeting women goes, you don't have to go to a bar. Just don't be afraid to make eye-contact, to say hello, to ask OPEN ENDED questions, and things of that nature. I see too often guys failing on that sometimes, and then I hear them complain that the woman is "being cold" by giving them one line answer. You're only going to get a one line answer if that's all your question asks for...

Also, I feel it's worth noting that the answer is ALWAYS no unless you ask. So... don't be a pansy, ask her out, ask for her number, tell her she's cute, but don't be an ass about it. Don't make yourself out to be like you're only interested in her looks or something. Find common ground...

one time a 40+ year old woman at Costco tried to pick me up. She was pretty desperate too,wouldn't let it go. Could have destroyed that but I'm not into older women,plus she could have been some nut.


Nothing wrong with cougars hahah. Couple weeks ago, a friend of mine took me with him after we left his own party to go hit the bar. Apparently, I was his wingman. He struck out, but I managed to find a sexy cougar (8/10) among all the women there (wasn't a great selection to begin with). She was married and didn't want to dance, but she came back around and found me. I'm not a great dancer, but alcohol was involved and I'm not about to say no. Told her she was a knockout and that her husband should consider himself very lucky.

Don't really care that she was in her early 40's, nor did I have any plan on taking things further than what may have happened at the bar, but I think I made her night at least being that I'm 25. Might have gone farther if it wasn't last call though, but I'm not about to get myself involved in someone's marriage lol.

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 21:46

What am I going to do at the park? Play at the swings and monkey bars? I'm in my late 20s!!!


Which makes this thread even more sad..

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 21:53

To the OP:

Use your hand. It's cheaper and you don't need to take it out to dinner first. ;)

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 21:54

Feminist Rallies

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Posted 07 May 2013 - 21:54

To the OP:

Use your hand. It's cheaper and you don't need to take it out for dinner first. ;)


Well my right hand doesn't smell like p**** so :p