DocM Posted January 3, 2014 Share Posted January 3, 2014 Heartbreaking and inspiring at the same time. http://m.freep.com/localnews/article?a=2014301020063&f=1232 Woman's tragic death in Michigan hospital witnessed by family in Iran on laptop A nurse in a Michigan hospital kissed the patient's forehead. More than 6,000 miles away, Sanaz Nezami's family in Iran watched on a laptop computer and wept. Nezami, a vibrant 27-year-old woman who could speak three languages, wanted to pursue an advanced degree in engineering at Michigan Technological University. Instead, she was brain dead just a few weeks after unpacking her bags, the victim of a fatal beating by her new husband, according to police. Technology allowed family in Iran to watch her final hours. The family's faith in the hospital staff led to consent for an extraordinary donation: Nezami's heart, lungs and other life-saving organs were transplanted to seven people in the U.S., a remarkable gift that occurs in less than 1% of all cases. "We wanted God to perform a miracle and bring Sanaz back to life," her sister, Sara Nezami, said in a phone interview from Tehran. "But this is a miracle. Sanaz gave her life in order to give life." A nurse who took care of Sanaz Nezami said the experience was "eye-opening" for hospital staff. "The family was willing to trust us to know she wasn't coming back," Kim Grutt said. In August, Nezami married Nima Nassiri in Turkey and lived with him temporarily in the Los Angeles area, where he was born and raised. Her sister said the two met over the Internet. Nezami, a native of Tehran, had a bachelor's degree in engineering and a master's in French translation. She wanted a doctorate degree in environmental engineering. The newlyweds drove from California and found a rental home in November in Michigan. Nezami stayed in touch with family through e-mail, text messages and video. On Dec. 7, she asked her sister to proofread some English-to-Persian translation she was doing on the side. "I was shocked," Sara Nezami said. "Sanaz was a very precise girl, but she omitted some lines. I asked, 'Are you OK?' She told me there was no problem." The next day, Sanaz Nezami was rushed to a hospital with severe head injuries and was transferred to Marquette General Hospital. Police believe she was assaulted by her husband, who has been charged with second-degree murder. His attorney, David Gemignani, declined to comment. "Her brain was so swollen and so damaged, there was no longer any blood flow," explained Gail Brandly, who supervises nurses at the hospital. No one knew anything about Nezami, so Brandly ran her name through Google. Suddenly, the stranger who couldn't speak for herself came alive through a r?sum? posted online. Nezami was fluent in French, English and Persian. She volunteered to cook for charities. As a teen, she wrote for youth newspapers and magazines and won first place in a 2001 literature competition with an essay on "friendships and the differences between us." After about 24 hours, the hospital reached relatives in Iran. Immediate travel to the U.S. was impractical due to visa requirements, so a laptop was set up so the family could see Nezami on life support and talk to nurses and doctors over Yahoo Messenger. "It isn't something we've done in the past. It's not every day we're dealing with family members so far-flung," said Dave Edwards, spokesman for the hospital. At one point, Grutt was asked to stroke Nezami's head and kiss her forehead. "They wanted us to do things for Sanaz that they would have done," Grutt said. "They said, 'Let her know we love her. We're here.' I felt completely comfortable." Nezami died on Dec. 9, but her critical organs -- heart, lungs, kidneys, liver, pancreas and small intestine -- could be used by others. With the family's consent, they were removed and transplanted to seven people. No other details were released. "The family was very clear. They want Americans to know Sanaz loved America," said Wendy Mardak of UW-Organ and Tissue Donation, a regional organ donation agency. Nezami was buried Dec. 18 in a local cemetery. As a light snow fell, the hospital's chaplain, the Rev. Leon Jarvis, read Muslim prayers over the casket while about 20 people, mostly nurses and others who cared for her, watched. Jarvis, an Episcopal priest, said he pledged to Nezami's father that "as long as I draw breath and live in this city, your daughter will never be alone." "I've never seen anyone so quickly adopted by so many," Jarvis said. "Considering our season right now, this was an incredible gift by Sanaz, but also a gift from the community as well. It's realizing the goodness of humanity and what people can do in a real cynical time." LOC 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Evil Overlord Posted January 3, 2014 Share Posted January 3, 2014 :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siah1214 Posted January 3, 2014 Share Posted January 3, 2014 What the hell kind of a monster would do this? Poor girl. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeke009 Posted January 3, 2014 Share Posted January 3, 2014 Great story, I'm glad they shared it with anyone willing to read it. There are a lot of messages in there, but the most prevalent to me was that borders can't hold back compassion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Growled Member Posted January 5, 2014 Member Share Posted January 5, 2014 There are a lot of messages in there, but the most prevalent to me was that borders can't hold back compassion. Well said, Given the chance, a lot of people will be like that. We are more alike that different, after all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 What the hell kind of a monster would do this? Poor girl. :(The kind of monster our very tough judges will semtence to life in a deep, very dark hole with some Bubba as a roomie. If we're really lucky some day the guards will take a potty break diring his shower time and.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlintyV Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 The kind of monster our very tough judges will semtence to life in a deep, very dark hole with some Bubba as a roomie. If we're really lucky some day the guards will take a potty break diring his shower time and.... Tough judges? Didn't some kid get away with killing 4 people while DUI? A little odd to see you hoping someone gets raped. Two wrongs don't make a right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 Tough judges? Didn't some kid get away with killing 4 people while DUI?You know better than that. That was Texas, this is Michigan. Separate states, different judiciaries. Ours is particularly tough on DUI and cases like this, even the "liberal" judges. Here that kid would have been up for Murder 2 as well. A little odd to see you hoping someone gets raped. Two wrongs don't make a right.Sorry, but I believe in what goes around comes around. Prison life is harsh on baby and wife killers like this worm. Just hoping for the usual. Tell me he doesn't deserve it, or worse? The Evil Overlord 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlintyV Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 That was Texas, this is Michigan. Separate states, different judiciaries. Ours is particularly tough on DUI and cases like this, even the "liberal" judges. Here that kid would have been up for Murder 2 as well. Sorry, but I believe in what goes around comes around. Prison life is harsh on baby and wife killers like this worm. Just hoping for the usual. Tell me he doesn't deserve it, or worse? Nope I don't believe people deserve to be raped. He gets whatever his punishment is for the crime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 Like it or not his fellow prisoners WILL exact a price for his crime the system won't. Even the prisoners have standards, with many having sisters & moms so it's usually open season on these creeps. All I'm doing is prepare the popcorn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Evil Overlord Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 You're both right from where you stand, Doc and Flinty But in fairness I'd want his pain of serving time to be unpleasant too, life is a gift, too many take it for granted and think they can do what they want, take what they want whenever and wherever they want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlintyV Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 Like it or not his fellow prisoners WILL exact a price for his crime the system won't. Even the prisoners have standards, with many having sisters & moms so it's usually open season on these creeps. All I'm doing is prepare the popcorn. And that popcorn is to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 A metaphor for the grin I'll have when the news story is printed about his ultimate prison fate. Same one I had when Dhamer bit the dust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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