DaDude Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 In the next couple of weekends, I've been invited by two different groups of people to go to a beach. Next weekend, I was invited to go to a clothing optional beach in New Jersey (Gunnison Beach). I've never been to a clothing optional beach before, so I'm wondering if it's worth a try especially since I now have a group of people to go with. However, most of the people I will be going with are going to be guys (about 90% guys). I know the unbalanced gender may make this seem like an easy elimination, but I'm wondering if I'll be missing out on a liberating experience if I don't go to this. However, the weekend after next, I was invited by my yoga instructor to go a yoga trip at Rockaway Beach. Again, another fun event. A whole day at the beach with a nice group of people (especially with a lot of girls) with nice relaxing yoga. Sounds like a great way to relax & unwind, meet people and make friends. Since I need to meet more women in my life, this sounds like a good way to meet more girls amd have more female friends in my life. I would rather only choose one because I don't want to hit the beach on two consecutive weekends because my skin is very sensitive to the sun rays and I don't want to fry my skin. So, what do you think is the best choice.... going to a clothing optional beach with mostly guys or doing yoga at a clothed beach with a lot of girls? I'm afraid of picking one and then regreting that I didn't go to the other, so I really want to make a good, careful decision here that I won't regret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaDude Posted June 4, 2015 Author Share Posted June 4, 2015 Anyone? Nobody here has been to either beach? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sikh Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 This is neowin, we people don't go outside ever. Whats light? /s Obviously choose the second, seems like thats the one you want anyway since you mention "girls" and then "i need to meet more women in my life". Seeing male genitalia versus being with women and doing yoga relaxing, I wonder which one you should choose. I personally wouldn't choose either cause I hate yoga, and seeing naked people is not my favorite past time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeChipshop Member Posted June 4, 2015 Member Share Posted June 4, 2015 -- Snip -- Use sun screen (You should do any way) and go to both. Problem solved. +E.Worm Jimmy and DConnell 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim K Global Moderator Posted June 4, 2015 Global Moderator Share Posted June 4, 2015 Whichever beach doesn't have sharks...or jellyfish DConnell and The Evil Overlord 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Raze Subscriber² Posted June 5, 2015 Subscriber² Share Posted June 5, 2015 Do it, go to both. And have fun! +John Teacake and DConnell 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sc302 Veteran Posted June 5, 2015 Veteran Share Posted June 5, 2015 Most nude beaches in nj have less than desirable looking people there. I would vote for either wild wood or point pleasant. Or better yet long beach island. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astropheed Veteran Posted June 5, 2015 Veteran Share Posted June 5, 2015 I'd easily go to the 2nd one, most Humans are ugly naked and starting any conversation with girls will be too awkward since you're new at it all. Plus who gives a crap about nudity, we have the internet now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+virtorio MVC Posted June 5, 2015 MVC Share Posted June 5, 2015 If you're into seeing what is probably mostly going to be ######, go to the nude beach. If not, go to the other one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaDude Posted June 5, 2015 Author Share Posted June 5, 2015 Most nude beaches in nj have less than desirable looking people there. I would vote for either wild wood or point pleasant. Or better yet long beach island. You know, it's funny. I went to Coney Island beach a couple of times over the past couple of years and there's A LOT of old, nasty looking people there in swimsuits. It was not a pretty sight at all. Yet, I always go to Central Park a lot in the summer and 90% of the people sunbathing in the lawns are nice, young looking women. How do you explain that? What is it about the beach that attracts old people and what is it about a park lawn that attracts young people? I would've thought that the beach would attract a lot of youngsters too, but I guess not. I, personally, like the park better because I find sand messy, so maybe a lot of young people go to parks for the same reason. Just a guess. Anyways, thanks everyone for the input. It sounds like Rockaway Beach is the best choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
123456789A Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 I would do option #2. People in New Jersey are all some weird shade of orange. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anibal P Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Yoga trip sounds more interesting TBH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vcfan Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 going to a fried sausage fest vs. hanging out with beautiful women . such a difficult decision DConnell and +E.Worm Jimmy 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaDude Posted June 8, 2015 Author Share Posted June 8, 2015 going to a fried sausage fest vs. hanging out with beautiful women . such a difficult decision It may not be a sausage fest. There may be a ton of beautiful women at the nude beach. That's what I'm counting on. But it doesn't matter anyway. It rained last Saturday, so the trip got cancelled. So, assuming next Saturday is nice weather, then I'll be heading to Rockaway Beach. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick H. Supervisor Posted June 8, 2015 Supervisor Share Posted June 8, 2015 It may not be a sausage fest. There may be a ton of beautiful women at the nude beach. That's what I'm counting on.I honestly can't stress this enough: make sure when making a decision that you're thinking with the head on your shoulders, not...well, I don't think I need to finish that sentence. Too many times have I seen friends and others get frustrated because they made a decision thinking about some sort of payoff with members of the opposite sex. For a majority of people they don't do that, and they always end up with a better result. The advice may be unnecessary for this particular situation since your other party got rained off, but consider it food for thought. +E.Worm Jimmy 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sc302 Veteran Posted June 8, 2015 Veteran Share Posted June 8, 2015 It may not be a sausage fest. There may be a ton of beautiful women at the nude beach. That's what I'm counting on. Yea, no. You will find the extremely rare/occasional beautiful woman. Imagine puking the whole day while the sun is up and then having dry heaves once every 6 hours or so...that is pretty much how that goes. Beautiful women who are into naked beach are friends with those that have a personal fenced in beach with enough room for a boat dock or two. They are naked on those parts of the beach....not general public beaches. We can dream of beautiful naked people to make it seem better than the reality... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaDude Posted June 9, 2015 Author Share Posted June 9, 2015 I honestly can't stress this enough: make sure when making a decision that you're thinking with the head on your shoulders, not...well, I don't think I need to finish that sentence. Too many times have I seen friends and others get frustrated because they made a decision thinking about some sort of payoff with members of the opposite sex. For a majority of people they don't do that, and they always end up with a better result. The advice may be unnecessary for this particular situation since your other party got rained off, but consider it food for thought. Are you saying that when making decisions, I should not think about meeting girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick H. Supervisor Posted June 9, 2015 Supervisor Share Posted June 9, 2015 Are you saying that when making decisions, I should not think about meeting girls?Not entirely. What I'm saying is that it shouldn't be your deciding factor when making a decision. From your original post, I read the following situation: - There's a beach party one weekend. - There's a yoga party the weekend after. - You don't want to do both. The rest of the information is superfluous. From that, I would have picked the beach party. I'm far happier with a beer and a BBQ than putting myself in to awkward positions. If your counter argument would be to say, "but Nick, there won't be as many girls at the beach party as at the yoga party" I would reply that it doesn't concern me, as that isn't why I would be considering either event. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaDude Posted June 11, 2015 Author Share Posted June 11, 2015 Wow! It looks like my beach party for this Saturday is going to get rained out as well. The forecast is looking terrible for that day. Damn! New York weather sucks big time. You can never count on decent weather here. Geez! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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