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3 year-old Girl doesn't like Nursery School Menu, Walks Home


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#1 Hum

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 17:46

When faced with pork chops for her school dinner, three-year-old Leonie Terry was not a happy pupil.

But instead of simply asking for something different, Leonie decided to take herself home for lunch almost half a mile away.

She wandered out of the school gates and down the street towards her house before crossing four roads on her own.

Leonie had walked around a quarter of a mile and was heading towards a busy dual carriageway when luckily a passer-by spotted her and escorted safely back to school.

Now a major inquiry is under way to establish how a young child was permitted to walk out of a busy school at lunchtime.

The youngster was spotted crossing a road by Gemma Bailey, 24, manager of a nearby estate agent.

She said: "I saw this little girl run past in school uniform and then across a road on her own so I ran after her and brought her back to the shop.

"She didn't have a coat or bag with her. When we phoned the school they said they didn't even know she was missing."

Leonie's expedition for her lunch had taken the daring youngster almost a quarter of a mile from her primary school.

She is believed to have been missing from Aspinal primary school in Gorton, Greater Manchester for at least 20 minutes.

Now her stunned parents are demanding answers as to how a young pupil was able to walk out of a school so easily.

Her parents are furious and claim the school did not contact them to tell them Leonie was missing until she had been returned there.

Mr Terry, 44, said: "Not only were the gates left open but the school didn't call the police or ourselves to let us know she was missing. "They said they thought she'd disappeared from the dinner queue while one of teachers was dealing with another child and they went to look for her in the toilets."

"Not only were the gates left open but what angers me most is that the school didn't call the police or ourselves to let us know she was missing." He said: "It's only a small school, how long were they planning to wait before they called someone?" The couple received a phone call at about 12.10pm on Wednesday.

Nursery children start queuing for lunch at around 11.50am , said Mr Terry, although his daughter claims she left school before they lined-up.

"We need to know we can trust the people we're leaving our daughter with," said Mr Terry.

"The school has apologised and assured us the gates are now locked during school hours but it's no good waiting until something happens to act – this could have had tragic consequences." Her mother Michelle Ladkin, 21, said Leonie had shown her the route she took and told them that she looked both ways when crossing the roads.

Leonie said: "I wanted to go home because I don't like the school dinner."

Headteacher at Aspinal primary school, Neil Flint, said they were treating the incident extremely seriously.

"The safety of pupils in school is of paramount importance to us and we take very seriously any incident where this is compromised.

"Over the last few years we have invested heavily in routines and perimeter fencing to ensure pupil safety.

"It appears however that on Wednesday a child left the premises during the lunchtime break through a gate that should have been closed, and had been checked earlier that morning.

"The child's absence was noticed immediately by a teacher who ensured that the child was safely returned to school. The teacher was assisted in this by a member of the local community." Mr Flint said: "Obviously, a detailed investigation is underway to determine how the incident occurred, procedures have been reviewed and the necessary steps have been taken to ensure that this never happens again."

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 17:58

You know a 1/4 mile isnt that long, a kid could walk it within 5-6 minutes, so its not like they had a ton of time to look all over for her

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:09

She must be a Seventh-Day Adventist like me. :p

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:11

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Her mother Michelle Ladkin, 21

21?!?! That means she was 19 when the kid was born. In my books that's too young and irresponsible to be having kids.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:17

I was walking 3 miles one way to school when I was 7 for a full year (Not in this country). Considering this day and age it's not a good idea for a child to walk alone, but I blame both school and parents. To School for not having a good security that a 5 year old can just walk out of school. My day I have to go over 10 foot wall and a barb wire to get out of school, And parents for not teaching the child proper manners that if she doesn’t like food atleast tell the teacher or bring your own lunch.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:20

View PostAdmiral Michael, on Jan 21 2008, 13:11, said:

21?!?! That means she was 19 when the kid was born. In my books that's too young and irresponsible to be having kids.


Well, her father is 44?! He must be responsible. My mom wasn't that old when she had me, and she was responsible. It's all up to maturity, some go faster than others.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:26

1/4th mile isn't very far atall.... to realize someone is missing within less than 5 mins is enough ... if they didn't find her after maybe 10 mins I would call the police but after only 2 or so mins of searching i don't see the problem. Although, the gate SHOULD have been locked.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:34

I would run away from pork too !!! :woot:

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 18:57

schools fault for leaving gates open (that's just sad)

parents fault for spoiling the kid to the point that she thinks it's ok to walk off on her own just because she doesn't like the food. she needs a good spanking

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 22:59

View PostAdmiral Michael, on Jan 22 2008, 04:11, said:

21?!?! That means she was 19 when the kid was born. In my books that's too young and irresponsible to be having kids.

That's very normal and a very healthy age for woman to have children. My sister has 2 daughters and she is abou 24. I've encountered women who had kids since they were 16 and they are more responsible and mature and have very happy families.

In the article's case, it's the school's incompenent to look after the girl. The parents expected the school to serve it's purpose.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 23:02

This is Gorton. It's a rough area of Manchester. That explains the unlocked gates and young mum.

If I ever go there it's through it. And quickly.

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 23:05

The school is terrible, at our high school, there would be a 2 meter fence surrounding the whole school, with little sharp spears ontop, which help the kids stay in school XD

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 23:12

View PostPermaSt0ne, on Jan 21 2008, 13:57, said:

schools fault for leaving gates open (that's just sad)

parents fault for spoiling the kid to the point that she thinks it's ok to walk off on her own just because she doesn't like the food. she needs a good spanking

How the HELL does that mean the kid is spoiled?

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Posted 21 January 2008 - 23:18

View PostPermaSt0ne, on Jan 21 2008, 13:57, said:

schools fault for leaving gates open (that's just sad)

parents fault for spoiling the kid to the point that she thinks it's ok to walk off on her own just because she doesn't like the food. she needs a good spanking
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Posted 21 January 2008 - 23:40

View PostAdmiral Michael, on Jan 21 2008, 18:11, said:

21?!?! That means she was 19 when the kid was born. In my books that's too young and irresponsible to be having kids.

Lots of 19 year olds are far too selfish and immature to be having kids. But lots aren't. While society discourages being a parent at that age, it's got more to do with finances than maturity. I'm 21 and I know I could look after a child well enough, but I don't want to while I can't afford it.

The reason I say this is because my own mother was 20 when I was born so I know how good a job young mothers can do, despite having zero money. Oh and my aunt and grandmother were 17 year olds when they had their first children. Young yes, but bad and immature mothers? No. Your books are wrong.

I should also add that your attempt at bitching at the (female) mother (but not the (male) father I see) is completely irrelevant when it was the nursery who managed to allow the child to escape, and this is not even the mother's fault.

View PostJustin-, on Jan 21 2008, 18:20, said:

Well, her father is 44?! He must be responsible. My mom wasn't that old when she had me, and she was responsible. It's all up to maturity, some go faster than others.

Indeed.

View PostPermaSt0ne, on Jan 21 2008, 18:57, said:

schools fault for leaving gates open (that's just sad)

parents fault for spoiling the kid to the point that she thinks it's ok to walk off on her own just because she doesn't like the food. she needs a good spanking

The only spoiling I can see is that the parents feed their child well, so when she didn't like the food, in that strange horrible place that she didn't feel safe in, she thought she could go home for something better.

Chances are that there's never been reason for her parents to tell her not to leave somewhere. I don't think you know much about small children either. She's three, not ten. You don't spank children who can't understand what they've done wrong. It's called abuse.