FREq Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 if you catch her at a calm place with not to many people, go up to her and ask somthing like: "hi! uhm..i was wondering if i could ask you out for dinner?" (sorry, if my english is bad, but i guess you'll get my point :p) - it actually worked for a guy inviting my sister out. they have been together for almost 10 years now....and i think the most women would find that charming :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberKewl Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 I kinda agree with djgramma here - just be yourself, act normal and try to approach her, talk to her, try to get to know her, etc. You have to take the initiative to take that very first step because if you don't even try, how would you know whether you'll succeed (it's the same in anything in life)? So you must have the courage to approach her at least. You don't have to try to impress people to get their attention, some would prefer if you act normal (be who you are). Once you get to know her better, you'll probably know if she's the right one for you. That's just my 2 cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
em_te Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 You can go up to her and be like: "Don't I know you from somewhere?... We've met before, right?... Yeah you were with your other friend too, right?... At hooters?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberKewl Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I think if both of you were from the same school/college/workplace, it would be best if you just approach her directly and just say "hi" and start talking about school (or college/work) and move up from there. I think it's a more progressive way of approaching a girl rather than being too direct by asking her out for dinner and stuff like that. While the direct approach of asking a girl out for dinner may work to some people, i think generally it would be better to progressively talk and slowly get to know her better and then finally ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djgramma Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Hehe take the advice of the peeps wanting you to go direct. It's the only way... believe me, I know. I've been contemplating numerous times on how to get the attention of certain girls and all of them never went through because I never did it. Hehe, I should do it soon, the girls are starting to make the first move now. :blink: Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scratchy Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Have a friend steal her mobile, then u chase after friend, retrieve the mobile and take it back to her, you are now her hero and she will love you forever, plus if she doesn't take to you straight away you can grab her mobile number before handing the phone back, now you can wear her down over time till she does like you. There are a few downsides to this plan however a) Friend is caught by someone else and put in jail - but hey it's not you going to jail so who cares :) b) Girl goes out with you however you must now never see your friend again - this is why you should get a friend you don't really like to execute the plan. c) I can't think of a c. :happy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linked Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I, too, have literally tried breaking some ice in front of a girl, and when she asked what I was doing, I told her I was "breaking the ice between us". She laughed, and it sorta worked. Then, I remembered that she was my girlfriend already. I think that was a good joke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
betasp Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 WOW, you are in a delima. Some people find it funny but it is tough to go up to strangers. Somethimes it's easy when I am feeling "on" and tough when I am feeling "off." If I am drunk it is REAL easy, but meeting a stranger on the street smellin of alcohol is not the way to go. If it is that important to you "Man up!" Do, I met my wife a a basketball game. I was a photgrapher at the game and I fell in love with her from a distance. I finally after two games "maned up" and went up to her and told her after wasting two roles of film on her at a distance I needed a name to go with the face. She laughed and we became friends first adn then 5 years later we got married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lingwo Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Pretend you know her, if that fails tell her your Fred Flintstone and you'll make her bed rock tsh tsh! If your still in one piece at the end of all this your golden! I sometimes wonder why i have been single for so long :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberKewl Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I think this short article (or guide or whatever you call it) might help: http://www.datingdiva.co.uk/html/200202_11.htm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MR_Candyman Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 MR_Candyman has all the ideas I should have put down, now that is how you get women :yes: Darn straight man! But you were on the right track, so you get props aswell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thefonz Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 chat-up lines NEVER work; you should make some humourous comment about the news, or weather, or yourself or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rivers Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 a) Throw a brick at her when shes not looking... b) shout down a passage in the street she cant see and make out the person who threw the brick ran down there.. c) pretend to give chase d) come back saying you have lost them e) ask if she is ok f) use some humour, tlc and make it look like you care to make her feel better... or if the brick hit her head then use... g) call for an ambulance if needed h) if unconcious maybe the kiss of life as you never know.. and hey at least you got a snog. i) if shes ok... ask to walk her home in case the phantom brick thrower strikes again j) chat her up on the way back least you have a topic of conversation to build on now k) get invited in or if she doesnt invite you in... then insist on coming in to make sure no one is lurking in her house... l) forget the coffee and shag her m) :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thefonz Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 hey rivers; who's that chick in your profile <<< ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildies Posted December 13, 2003 Author Share Posted December 13, 2003 There are two approaches to this dillema, you can not do anything and regret never trying.... or, make it an adventure to try new things and make her like you, by being you. If you try different things to get her attention, you have a 50-50 chance of losing her attention after you get it, once you turn off the charm and turn on your personality. Just be yourself and you can try really hard if it means something to you, but I'd advise you to treat it like any other *there is no perfect girl out there, just really awesome ones that snag you* :ninja: Cheers I think this is the best way!!!! But i am still alittle afriad to lose it if she didnt like my way.....inspite i think my way isnt that bad :blush: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildies Posted December 13, 2003 Author Share Posted December 13, 2003 I think if both of you were from the same school/college/workplace, it would be best if you just approach her directly and just say "hi" and start talking about school (or college/work) and move up from there. I think it's a more progressive way of approaching a girl rather than being too direct by asking her out for dinner and stuff like that. While the direct approach of asking a girl out for dinner may work to some people, i think generally it would be better to progressively talk and slowly get to know her better and then finally ask her out. Nope...she isnt with me in the college or a workplace :( I am trying now to where exactly she is doing??? Working or in college???? But there A little problem in me really... Thats i am little Shy with strangers or poeple i dont know!!!!! But after a get used to them..i am good :huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoyablue Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Don't try, that's the biggest thing. I find that when I try to do something, I'm not really being myself. Just be yourself, that's the best way. If you're not yourself she won't like you for who you are, and when she does find out who you really are there is no assurance that she will like it either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberKewl Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Well i think the best way is to approach her calmly without making up anything and just start talking naturally. It's of course important to find a topic to talk about first and progressively go from there. You need to have the courage to speak to her and also if you tend to fumble with your words, maybe you could just joke around a bit by saying something like "Sorry, i get quite nervous especially around girls and tend to mess up sometimes". There's no right or wrong way of approaching but in most cases, i think (and feel) that it is better to be honest because it can be very hurting to person if she finds out that you're actually lying - as you need to gain her trust on you to move on. But then again, it also depends on the girl and what she likes, what she can take or cannot take, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaRSightxc2 Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 Go up to her, make sure she doesn't look past you. If she does then forget it there and then. If she makes some movement that suggests she knows you are there, say: "Hello". or something equally original. Her natural reaction will be to say hello back. Then pick a subject that is relevent to the situation: If you are in the town centre, ask what she is doing/buying/whatever, or if you are at a train station ask where she is off to. After that, try making a small joke, nothing to complicated. It's best not to use puns, either: observational jokes/statements are the best. If the conversation flows then be confident and ask her for her number or something. And remember: He who dares, wins. <edit> Upon reading CyberKewls post, I would agree with him, except you don't want to play up your shyness too much. By all means mention it, but you want to give the impression that you are a confident person. Girls like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EzNoW Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 yeah my advice is tojust be yourself like many people have said and try to start a converstaion with her, always remember u have nothing to lose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildies Posted December 13, 2003 Author Share Posted December 13, 2003 yeah my advice is tojust be yourself like many people have said and try to start a converstaion with her, always remember u have nothing to lose I dont wanna Loosee Her :no: Anyway I am going to see her today @ night (i hope).... And i am gonna try what CuberKewl said..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rivers Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 hey rivers; who's that chick in your profile <<< ?? dunno :( I neeeeeeeeeeeeed to know https://www.neowin.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=116844&st=0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blues Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I would walk up to her, tell her that I though she was really perty, and then ask fer her name and #. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rivers Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I would walk up to her, tell her that I though she was really perty, and then ask fer her name and #. judging by the spelling.. you would do it whilst drunk?? :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x2cube Posted December 13, 2003 Share Posted December 13, 2003 I would take a friend w/ me though for support. I would be like sup she would be like sup. I'd be like nothing, she'd be like yeah me too then I would be like ok good she wouldn't say anything then I'd walk away wait wat was the point int this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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