imachip Posted October 12, 2019 Share Posted October 12, 2019 (edited) 20 minutes ago, Human.Online said: You told me what your opinion was. I acknowledged that you told me about your opinion on my opinion, but it means nothing, changes nothing. Should it change anything? Is your opinion more valid than mine? You don't need permission, but my opinion is MINE, I don't need your validation nor do I care for your condemnation of it. What did you WANT by telling me how you felt about MY opinion? If you feel condescended, and we're all supposed to be fluffy and lovely and put ourselves in each others shoes apparently: imagine how I feel being given critique on MY opinion. THAT is condescending! Obviously that's hyperbole because I don't feel condescended because you don't matter to me beyond the context of "a person who uses the Internet to critique other's opinions". No offense meant by that, it's just a factual summary of what you are to me. All I am is a person with a different point of view from yours. I've attempting to respond to your comments with my reasoning (just like you did to others). Unlike the others I chose to respond again and carry this on. You critiqued my responses, and as did I yours. To me, you're a person and I do my best to respond as I would having a conversation with any. If you feel like you got unfairly treated by me, then truely I'm sorry for that. Sean B. 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Montage Posted October 12, 2019 Share Posted October 12, 2019 1 minute ago, imachip said: All I am is a person with a different point of view from yours. I've attempting to respond to your comments with my reasoning (just like you did to others). Unlike the others I chose to respond again and carry this on. You critiqued my responses, and as did I yours. To me, you're a person and I do my best to respond as I would having a conversation with any. If you feel like you got unfairly treated by me, then I'm sorry for that. I don't feel that you treated me unfairly, but I appreciate that you care. I just acknowledged that you have a different opinion - I assume many will. What I don't understand is: you felt you should tell me your opinion on my opinion, but when I acknowledge it, that's somehow an issue for you. So, once more: What did you want from telling me? You do something that I personally deem to be a condescending act*: critiquing my personal opinion - but I accept that when something is publicly shared it is immediately open to such commentary. You directly inform me of your critique of my personal opinion - thus you are directly engaging me in a conversation on my personal opinion. However, when I acknowledge your actions and let you know my opinion of them, you accuse me of being condescending. How does that work? * I don't personally feel condescended as you don't have the ability to make me feel that - that's mine to own and not yours to give. I feel your act was condescending but I acknowledge that you don't interpret your actions that way. Either way, like I say - no ill will, but I'm going to end this part of the conversation here as this is going round and round in circles, it means nothing to me beyond answering a person who is engaging me and it is now wholly off topic. Have a good night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boo_star Posted November 23, 2019 Share Posted November 23, 2019 12 minutes ago, garanadhav said: wonga was irresponsible because they were offering 1k loan to be repaid in one month, which kind of forced me to borrow from them again and again and again. I "ignored" that debt, it was hanging around in my credit rating file for years. In the end Wonga was forced to write it off and now they are offering me money as compensation. They're offering you the interest and fees back as compensation. Or rather their administrators are. You likely won't see 1% of it and it isn't an admission of guilt. Also, lending someone £1000 for a month isn't in and of itself, wrong. Dick Montage 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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