+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 How? 2 guys performing the same task. The fact he was his boyfriend is most likely a trust and convenience thing. I fail to see the problem? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tlogank Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 eh, forget it. It is just for me to think that my roomate is shaving my head is one thing, but for me to think that a guy who likes me intimately is just different. I didn't knock it, it is just akward for me. As you said, different strokes for different folks. I am just not accustomed or used to being around gays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 I know what you mean. If you are not used to being around a section of society, it's not within your realm of normality to accept them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 eh, forget it. It is just for me to think that my roomate is shaving my head is one thing, but for me to think that a guy who likes me intimately is just different. I didn't knock it, it is just akward for me. As you said, different strokes for different folks. I am just not accustomed or used to being around gays. From what u said, do u really thing any of ur friends who is gay will tell u? And please don't think all gay men are like queer eye guys, those camp behaviour of gay guys are just another steroetype on telly. Well, I am not saying anything wrong with camp, but just that might make some people uncomfortable being with gay guys etc. And also, we are individuals, and we think differently, we behave differently, just like "normal" (straight) people. Please don't think we are all the same, we are not objects... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 Agreed. Quere Eye is using the "Gays are all perfectly dressed but camp" stereotype to make a show - it is NOT a reflection upon the whole community. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xeron Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 hehe - Never mention sexuality if you just want a simple answer :hmmm: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLegendOfMart Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 eh, forget it. It is just for me to think that my roomate is shaving my head is one thing, but for me to think that a guy who likes me intimately is just different. I didn't knock it, it is just akward for me. As you said, different strokes for different folks. I am just not accustomed or used to being around gays. Another stereotype i hate, just because im gay doesnt mean i fancy you and i want to shag you, the world does not revolve around you, you get up to things that i couldnt really care less about, we get up to things that are no business of yours, i dont see the point in homophobia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 Thats something that bugs me. Ok look, I am straight. Do I assume every girl wants to jump me? No. So why would every guy? A lot of straight people see homosexuality in a negative light though. A common feeling is that it's a deviation, a sexual perversion, and not based around the same type of relationships that hetrosexuals enjoy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 homophobia haha I think dislike certain people is ok, but dislike certain group of people that wrong... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldaccount1 Posted June 1, 2004 Author Share Posted June 1, 2004 Thats something that bugs me. Ok look, I am straight. Do I assume every girl wants to jump me? No. So why would every guy?A lot of straight people see homosexuality in a negative light though. A common feeling is that it's a deviation, a sexual perversion, and not based around the same type of relationships that hetrosexuals enjoy. exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 Agreed, disliking a person is fine, but judging a whole group by that person is wrong. Also, I do have no problem with disliking a certain trait also. I am happy to be straight and socialise with gay/bi - to be honest, the distinction isn't there. What I do NOT like is camp fairies! Such as the friend of a friend who claimes I am homophobic because I punched him out for repeatedly flirting with me and blowing me kisses. That was because he was an attention seeking idiot who deliberately tried to aggitate me, not because he was gay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I hate those ppl as well, when u talk to them, they think u r wanting them... it seems all their life is about themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tlogank Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Another stereotype i hate, just because im gay doesnt mean i fancy you and i want to shag you, the world does not revolve around you, you get up to things that i couldnt really care less about, we get up to things that are no business of yours, i dont see the point in homophobia please, my comments were in total sincerity, I was just saying that I wasn't used to being around them. I was also not saying every gay guy would want to shag me...if you paid attention, it was his boyfriend that shaved his head, so he obviously liked him...I was referring to his comment. I am fine with gays, but it ****es me off when they take other people's comments and intepret them to make it sound like the world is against them. Is it gross to me? Yea, it is, but I tolerate it. I don't hate on any of them or mock them or try to be their enemies, but it will **** me off when you take my comments to make them sound like I was talking negative about them as a whole. Then you are steroptyping me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 I don't wanna annoy anyone but... People that walk around as camp fairy queens really annoy me. I think they annoy a lot of gay people too. They are not about who they are, they are about who they want you to see. If homosexuality was an everyday part of their life, they'd not like it's gimmick appeal, and would just go about their business as straight people do. Sorry if that offends, but their actions just really annoy me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Sorry for went off the topic. I don't know in the States, but here in the UK, big hairdressers like vidal sassoon or toni&guy, they all have training school, and they can cut ur hair very cheap or maybe even free, why not try them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 please, my comments were in total sincerity, I was just saying that I wasn't used to being around them. I was also not saying every gay guy would want to shag me...if you paid attention, it was his boyfriend that shaved his head, so he obviously liked him...I was referring to his comment. I am fine with gays, but it ****es me off when they take other people's comments and intepret them to make it sound like the world is against them. Is it gross to me? Yea, it is, but I tolerate it. I don't hate on any of them or mock them or try to be their enemies, but it will **** me off when you take my comments to make them sound like I was talking negative about them as a whole. Then you are steroptyping me. Sorry, I didn't think there were anything wrong with my bf shaving my head. I am not saying the whole world is againist us or anything, I am trying to say you that not all gay guys are the same, and please do not try to dislike a group of people just because one person in the group that u don't like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoyablue Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 just not used to hearing a guy talk about his bf shaving him...plus I am homophobic. Then you're probably gay but haven't admitted it yet. A lot of truly homophobic individuals eventually realize it when they're trying to figure out why they're in a loveless marriage. I'm metrosexual, I spend quite a bit of time on my hair, there's nothing wrong with it. Besides, the french does help with the ladies... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tlogank Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Sorry, I didn't think there were anything wrong with my bf shaving my head. I am not saying the whole world is againist us or anything, I am trying to say you that not all gay guys are the same, and please do not try to dislike a group of people just because one person in the group that u don't like. <sigh> Please read carefully friend. I didn't say there was anything wrong with it. I didn't say they were all the same. I never even came close to saying I disliked them as people. I dislike what they do, but not the person. ALL I said was it would be weird to me for a guy who likes me intimately to cut my hair. That is all. Never said every gay man wants me. Never said anything to classify myself as a stereotype. Never said they were all fairy-princes that dressed up and acted like the Queer-eye guys. All I made was the comment about how it would be weird for me to have someone of my sex that liked me cut my hair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tlogank Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Then you're probably gay but haven't admitted it yet. A lot of truly homophobic individuals eventually realize it when they're trying to figure out why they're in a loveless marriage. Trust me friend, that is not the case at all. Have had a girlfriend happily for 11 months now...and there is plenty of love there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanxuuk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 But u did say u r homophobic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted June 1, 2004 Subscriber² Share Posted June 1, 2004 I used to be homophobic! Big deal - I learned to tollerate (how very patronising that sounds) and then to accept and then to be happy around, and then the line dissappeared. I mean I am still hetro, but am not gonna even wonder who is straight or gay, I really don't care. But at no point was I ever gay and in denial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoyablue Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Trust me friend, that is not the case at all. Have had a girlfriend happily for 11 months now...and there is plenty of love there. That's what they all say... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ceminess Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Then you're probably gay but haven't admitted it yet. A lot of truly homophobic individuals eventually realize it when they're trying to figure out why they're in a loveless marriage.I'm metrosexual, I spend quite a bit of time on my hair, there's nothing wrong with it. Besides, the french does help with the ladies... oh please now if that isn't stereotyping then i don't know what is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tlogank Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 That's what they all say... to be honest...I could really not care @ all what you think about or if you believe me, but if you want proof head on over to MY MOBLOG and look @ the blonde girl in 70% of the pics with me...that would be her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duhk Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I have the prettiest hair ever! 8D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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