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I experienced that also. My father has been giving me smacks every time there is something wrong in the house, even something that went on that did not involve me. Luckly, he can't do that any more because I am an adult, but I now see him of a good father, he even helped me get through my car problems.

My mum and sister often disagrees with my dad over even the smallest things. Whenever they argue (which is often late at midnight), they will shout at each other and both of them could bring up matters that happened as early as the 1970's :blink: , which was the time when my mother worked both as a seamtress and a chambermaid :blink: . She often accused my father of bringing her suffering (partly true), and accused him of holding her back when she is trying to start a new career (which often brings her to Malaysia, our neighbouring country). My father often complains about my mum not telling my father where she is going, not caring about the family, being too occupied with her new career, blah blah blah. It is very hard to say who's right and who's wrong, although my mother has suffered since young (she comes from a very poor family), and I defintly pity with her. My father, although is quite hardworking, does not smoke, nor drink alcohol, is not a very good father. When I was a child, he rarely brought me out on the weekends (I pleaded with him time and time again to bring me out, and I often complained about being very bored at home (there was absolutely nothing to do), but he ignored every of my plea, and sometimes even scolded me. Many of the places and experinces I have wanted to see and feel since I was a child was sasifitied only recently, when I was 14, 15, and 16. And even then, many of them has disappeared, some completely. He also caned and beat me often, and, until a few years ago, he even used a wooden block to beat me. I had injuries all over my body (legs especially), and when he is mad, he will do almost anything, without any thinking. He will not hesitate but throw chairs at me (much like how those guys in WWE smack their rivals with steel chairs :blink: :no: ), use poles of all sorts on me, and slap me real hard. Of course, over time, I have grown to distrust and dislike him, and I don't allow him to touch any of my things or go into my bedroom. I have also changed a lot of my ways to make sure that I am looked at as a opposite to my father. Although, in recent years, he is doing a lot of things to try and repay his misdeeds, he still has a lot of bad habits which make me dislike him.

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My family abandoned me when I was diagnosed with cancer. They couldn't handle it, because I reminded them too much of my mom who also died of cancer. Instead of being supportive, they just left me. My dad kicked me out, and I have'nt talked to anyone (brothers / father / stepmom) in over a year. :cry:

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My family abandoned me when I was diagnosed with cancer. They couldn't handle it, because I reminded them too much of my mom who also died of cancer. Instead of being supportive, they just left me. My dad kicked me out, and I have'nt talked to anyone (brothers / father / stepmom) in over a year. :cry:

I'm so sorry to hear that...

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My family abandoned me when I was diagnosed with cancer. They couldn't handle it, because I reminded them too much of my mom who also died of cancer. Instead of being supportive, they just left me. My dad kicked me out, and I have'nt talked to anyone (brothers / father / stepmom) in over a year. :cry:

That is so beyond ****** up. That is *horrible*. I can only hope that someday you reconcile with your family and that they realize what they have done to you. I hope you recover fully, and find peace in your life.

As for my family...they are great. I went through the little melodramatic bull**** when I was a teenager and I thought everyone and everything related to me was an inferior form of life, then I got married and had children of my own, and most things make more sense now, in retrospect. Not everything, since I can always think that I'd have done things differently, but I can at least respect the decisions and choices my parents made.

As for the child that posted dreaming of slitting their fathers wrists, save the teenage angst and shock attempts for people that care. I only hope someday you mature enough to regret saying what you have, less you become a worse parent than you feel your own are.

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My family is just like The Show "The Simpsons".. I am Ment to be Bart.. my sister is Lisa My mom is marge with the hair and so is my dad with the hair and dullness.. there is no maggy.. LOL :D

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That is so beyond ****** up. That is *horrible*. I can only hope that someday you reconcile with your family and that they realize what they have done to you. I hope you recover fully, and find peace in your life.

As for my family...they are great. I went through the little melodramatic bull**** when I was a teenager and I thought everyone and everything related to me was an inferior form of life, then I got married and had children of my own, and most things make more sense now, in retrospect. Not everything, since I can always think that I'd have done things differently, but I can at least respect the decisions and choices my parents made.

As for the child that posted dreaming of slitting their fathers wrists, save the teenage angst and shock attempts for people that care. I only hope someday you mature enough to regret saying what you have, less you become a worse parent than you feel your own are.

NO.

I will be dead within the year from this cancer, and I will not reconcile.

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My family abandoned me when I was diagnosed with cancer. They couldn't handle it, because I reminded them too much of my mom who also died of cancer. Instead of being supportive, they just left me. My dad kicked me out, and I have'nt talked to anyone (brothers / father / stepmom) in over a year. :cry:

How could they do that!! :angry:

I am really sorry to hear that. Pal, you have us Neowinians to give you moral support :yes:

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How could they do that!! :angry:

I am really sorry to hear that. Pal, you have us Neowinians to give you moral support :yes:

Thanks.

Actually, Neowin has been FANTASTIC in it's support, and I really appreciate it.

My friends are my family now. They've really stepped up to the plate and supported me. They rule.

(as does Neowin).

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My family is arguing again... :( :no:

It was real serious. My mother's friend, her father, and my father's family members (my relatives) are all quarreling even as I type this. Their argument was so loud, I had to put on earphones and listen to some music to shut them out. Some of my family members were even crying, and my mother even nearly collasped from arguing.

Sigh... when will they ever stop? My father scolded me just now (again).

As for "X Statik Process", I hope you can be strong. If your cancer is still curable, I hope you get well soon. If not, I hope that you will be strong as you live out your last days :cry: .

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A.K.R.:

I can understand how you feel. I was 10 when a similar situation happened in my house too. I remember how frustrated I feel inside. In fact, I wished all of them drop dead at that moment.

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My family abandoned me when I was diagnosed with cancer. They couldn't handle it, because I reminded them too much of my mom who also died of cancer. Instead of being supportive, they just left me. My dad kicked me out, and I have'nt talked to anyone (brothers / father / stepmom) in over a year. :cry:

Damn, my dad is bad, but that's just too much. So sorry to hear that :(

Let's just hope something happen and you heal :D

AKR: I kinda know what you are going thru, almost everyday is the same sh*t here, everybody arguing so loud that he neighbours laugh at me when I go outside, and hey don't finish divorcing, is kinda sad :(

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