What Should I do?


  

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  1. 1. What Should I do?

    • Yes! He is/was your friend
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    • No! He punched you
      2
    • Not Sure!
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Hey guys

this is kind of personal, but i hope i can trust you guys.. plz do not make fun or anything like that of anyone in this... plz :)

Ok.. here it goes:

When i was 10, i had a best friend named Raj.. we were very close..but one day.. it all changed..

There were 5 of us walking home from school and me being the joker.. started to make fun of my friend Raj and the girl he liked.. i dont know when things got too far and i ended up getting punched in the face.. at that time.. i had rage in me and i just went home.. few weeks later, he moved to London and about a year after that i moved to USA.. i have not seen or heard from him since then.. my other friends have keeped up with time and have been talking.. but yesterday night.. i was out and no one was home.. and Raj called me.. i am guessing he got my number from some one in our group of friends and he called me.. he left a message that he wanted to talk to me. I dont know what to do now.. i dont know if i am worthy of his friendship.. after what happend.. i knew that i should not have done what i did.. but i was not able to tell him that... he was gone :( After the phone call from yesterday i dont know what to do.. i am so confused :s

I would like for you guys to help me out a bit.. yes this is a bit personal but i am up to it.. i know (or hope) i can trust you guys.

Thank You ;)

Space Guy

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Dude. You were 10. Kids do dumb stuff like that all the time. Dissin his girl was not cool, but hey... thats being a kid. He can't hold something that happened way back then against you still. Chances are, he just wants to patch things up with you. I doubt he would go to all the trouble of getting your number and calling you long distance just to harrass you.

Talk to him i say.

Cheers,

Keldyn

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You'll could have loads in common - coming from the same place - and I've been in a situation almost the same and getting to know a childhood friend again was great - we're good friends now, even though she live miles away.

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Originally posted by Keldyn  

Dude. You were 10. Kids do dumb stuff like that all the time.

Yes i know.. but we were VERY close... i knew what was on his mind.. and he knew what was on mine.. but u know.. as i good enought now? i have not tried to contact him or anything like that.. i should be the one that should say sorry and call.. but he did.. i dont know.. its not like he is going to harass me.. but its more like he is going to say sorry.. which i dont want him to..

I should have tried to get in contact with him.. which i did not.. i feel guilty that he might say sorry for that.. and i now think that punch not enough.. he should have done something worst for what i did..

btw.. that girl was 16.. i guess i made fun because she was so much older then him.. and it was like he was gone.. like for a six..(means he went crazy) i dont remember what i said.. but if i got punched for it.. it must have been something bad.. :hurt:

He did not even leave his phone number.. he said he will call back.. which i dont want him to do.. i want to call him and say sorry.. before he does.. and i dont want him to say sorry..

i dont know what i want or anything... going crazy now.. :dead:

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Originally posted by Keldyn  

Dude. You were 10. Kids do dumb stuff like that all the time. Dissin his girl was not cool, but hey... thats being a kid. He can't hold something that happened way back then against you still. Chances are, he just wants to patch things up with you. I doubt he would go to all the trouble of getting your number and calling you long distance just to harrass you.

Talk to him i say.

Cheers,

Keldyn

yep :D

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he's a friend.

if they're your best friend, i little fight should kill you two.

talk to him, work it out, and tell us what happens!

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Life it to short and uncertain to let something like this stand in your way of a great friendship you had. Obviously he feels the same that is why he called you.

Take a deep breath swallow your fear and give him a call. You will not only make amends from a past mistake you made as a child, but you can rekindle a great friendship.

Let us know how it goes!!

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Sometimes, we do something that we just forget about in the next year or two. You were ten years old and he possibly has matured since and I think it is time you had developed a link with him. You were close friendsand usually we would feel reassured that we know where our friends or reletives are.

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hey

got his phone number from a friend and going to ring him up as soon as my mom gets off the phone.. *hurry!* :)

thank you all for the replies.. i should have known better :)

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hey guys

an update.. i called him up.. talked a bit.. and we will be meeting this summer :) cant wait :D

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Originally posted by Anormal  

Why cant we be friends?

Why cant we be friends?

ur friends....get along...call him back man.

read above post :p

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Originally posted by Space Guy  

read above post :p

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so call him again :D:ponder:

my bad :p but good for you man...

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Originally posted by Anormal  

so call him again :D:ponder:

my bad :p  but good for you man...

lol.. London d00d.. long distance.. do u want to pay my bills? lol.. i talked to him for about 1.5 hours already.. (what mom does not know till the end of the month is good) :D

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So you need a poll now to make descisions in your life do you?

hrmm do you think by chance maybe you spend too much time on here if you have to ask an internet community what you should do?

YOu know a poll on weather you should chnage that dog in your signature now that would be a good poll.

But this one gees, it happened when your 10 who gives a damn, if either of you arent over it by now I think you need to see a physcologiest or something.

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Originally posted by Osiris  

So you need a poll now to make descisions in your life do you?

hrmm do you think by chance maybe you spend too much time on here if you have to ask an internet community what you should do?

YOu know a poll on weather you should chnage that dog in your signature now that would be a good poll.

But this one gees, it happened when your 10 who gives a damn, if either of you arent over it by now I think you need to see a physcologiest or something.

Or a gynecologist.

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Originally posted by Osiris  

who gives a damn

and you bothered posting because? :ermm:

btw.. if you cant help.. why do u post?

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I can understand why you asked, but when you value the opinions of total and utter stangers it's a bit bad.

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i say you punch him in the face! hehe

i punched one of my friends in the face one night (it was a sweet one, fainted, borken nose, 2 black eyes, racooned him). anyways we were hanging out the next week, no biggie.

its only as big a deal as you guys choose to make it

Screw You :evil:

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Originally posted by Dazzla  

I can understand why you asked, but when you value the opinions of total and utter stangers it's a bit bad.

Thank You ;)  

Dazzla

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ok.. lol..

omg.. how many copycats do we have? find you own company name! :p

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