Sleeping Together in Parents House, ok?


  

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  1. 1. Sleeping Together in Parents House, ok?

    • Girlfriend/Boyfriend sleep separate in parents house
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    • Girlfriend/Boyfriend sleep together in parents house but no fooling arround
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My philosophy is: "Parent's house, parent's rules"

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I agree. My g'f and I live in the same town 2 hrs away from her place, but we have seperate places. We spend our time at either of our houses all the time. However, when we go back home to her place, we stay in seperate rooms. I think the parents philosophy is 'out of sight, out of mind' but that's fine by me.

I have no problem being respectful to her parents. Why start an argument just because you want to sleep in the same bed. It would be nice, but it's no big deal ;)

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I'd ask first; how serious are you about her?

If not very much, then by all means, go ahead and share the same bed if they let you.

But if you are serious about her, then show the parents respect, and request a seperate place to sleep.

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Whenever I go to visit my girlfriend her parents make us sleep in separate bed rooms. We are both 20 and she has 2 younger sisters, 17 and 13. I just wanted to make a poll to see what the majority think of this type of situation. It should be assumed that the 2 people sleeping together would not be fooling arround/having sex at any point while they are together in the bedroom.

I would especially like some comments from parents who have had kids in this situation.

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It's very funny you should say this. My brother right now has his girlfriend over at my house for their time off from college. My brother is 20, as is his girlfriend. I'm Seventeen and my Little Brother is almost 13. My older brother has been sleeping with his girlfriend since they got here, and there has been no complaints from my parents. I guess it depends on how you were raised, and maybe the female's parents would be more protective then the males. I simply don't see anything wrong with it at an age where there are two consenting adults, and no "Monkey Buisness" is assumed.

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I agree.  My g'f and I live in the same town 2 hrs away from her place, but we have seperate places.  We spend our time at either of our houses all the time.  However, when we go back home to her place, we stay in seperate rooms.  I think the parents philosophy is 'out of sight, out of mind' but that's fine by me.

I have no problem being respectful to her parents.  Why start an argument just because you want to sleep in the same bed.  It would be nice, but it's no big deal ;)

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i think you are the only one who put the factor of importance into it... it would be nice to sleep in the same bed, but if you don't get to, big deal!

there are more important things than the 5 min of cuddling before you fall into a deep sleep, steal the covers, anger her, and wake up with a bruise you can't explain

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it's funny how many of such "relationship" polls are here on neowin lately. so you can't manage your private real life on your own? wierd :blink:

i have no problem with sleeping in one bed with my gf. but i guess american parents are way more prude than europeans.

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i really think nfc hit the nail on the head, it isn't about how serious you are, how old you are, any of that.

it is a matter of respect, and how far you are willing to push people for petty reasons.

if i were 30 and married, and me and my gf went to stay at her parents, and they made it obvious that we shouldn't sleep together, i am going to sleep on the couch that night

TRUST ME, there is not a whole lot worse then being in a relationship where the other persons parents hate you. that puts a TON of stress on a relationship.

so you take your self ritious ideals and sleep on the couch.

why would you not take a simple step down to avoid tension?

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Neither of my parents at neither of their houses would take issue with such a thing in either of my persuasions. If either of them didn't like it, then I would respect their wishes while under their roof or find another location in which to bed while visiting them.

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I'm a parent.

My philosophy is: "Parent's house, parent's rules"

I don't think it would be a good example for the two younger sisters (sleeping in the same room, that is).

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Exatly right and the way it should be. Cripe! Where are some of you people's morals at? No wonder the world is half f***ed up!!

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separate rooms but definate sneaking into the others room :)

If you were engaged, I'd say you should be able to sleep together. Atleast this is how it worked with my wife's parents.

edit: My wife's parents are European. I think this may of had something to do with it.

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It should be assumed that the 2 people sleeping together would not be fooling arround/having sex at any point while they are together in the bedroom.

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:laugh:

assumed?

it would be assumed quite the contrary.

but you should really talk to her parents and tell them they should have nothing to worry about.

but then again, what's the point in sleeping in your girl's house if you can't get any?

why doesn't she just come to your place and spend the night?

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dude.. just count yourself lucky that her dad even lets you stay over.  :o

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Love the sig.

Anyways. Yeah, I have differing viewpoints on the topic.

For one, the dad isn't sure that there's going to be no fooling around, so that has to be part of it.

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separate rooms but definate sneaking into the others room :)

If you were engaged, I'd say you should be able to sleep together. Atleast this is how it worked with my wife's parents.

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I agree, unless you're engaged sleep separately ... though I am hopin I get to sleep with my girl when I go visit her soon :ninja:

Do as I say, not as I do. :laugh: :whistle:

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