themartin Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 me and me gurl are both 18 and i stay over at her house all the time, when we do sleep its in the same bed (its even a small one). she lives with her mom, older sister (like 20 or 21) and her sisters son whos 2. i dont think anyone minds, becuz her nefu come in every once in a while and lays down with us. and like a week ago me gurl was gonna go take a shower then go to bed, but i didn't leave for like 2 hours becuse her nefew wanted to join her and also wanted me to join in, and we had to wait till he fell asleep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xpablo Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 Before I married my wife and I stayed @ her parents we were not allowed to sleep in same room, even though we lived together already. But about 2 months before our wedding, her strict catholic parents allowed us to sleep together in a double bed :o , but the old man says only because were almost married, but when her brother (42yrs) came to visit with his new girlfriend(38yrs) after he got divorced , they had too sleep in seperate rooms, even though they've both been divorced and have kids from prev marriages. Funny how they let the daughter & boyfriend sleep unwed together, but the oldest son & his girlfriend (now wife) not. you would think it would be the other way around. OT: Have you ever been caught in the act having sex with your girlfriend by her father, when you guys were/are young teenagers (15yrs) ? I have ,that was a pretty bad situation in the '70s. Except for my mom laughing about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaRSightxc2 Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 I voted for the second option...but then realised that fooling around doesn't matter as long as you arn't caught :p Thats the philosophy I live by anyway (Y) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N0x Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 who said u cant sleep together and fool around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerm Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 ^Im waiting for that option aswell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akaladis Veteran Posted December 31, 2004 Veteran Share Posted December 31, 2004 I would never share the bed with my girlfriend under her parents' roof. I just think they deserve more respect than that. How would you feel if, one day, your daughter was sharing her bed with her boyfriend in your house? Not very comfortable I believe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krudomanic Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 Use a Motel more expensive but, at least you will not have anybody bothering you and you wont sh*t yourself when you hear a floorboard move... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunamonkey Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 How would you feel if, one day, your daughter was sharing her bed with her boyfriend in your house? Not very comfortable I believe. 585203825[/snapback] Everyone has to grow up and have sex one day. The fact that parents blinker themselves to it is just pointless. They can't be daddy's precious innocent girl forever. However, I do agree that the parent house parent rules comes into play. However, I would have to question the parents motives for separating them. Can they not trust their children to keep their bits to themselves? Not having trust can only lead to them shagging elsewhere anyway, you may as well give them a clean environment to do it in. In your position (thread starter) I would respect the parents wishes, and make it seem like it's not a big deal. Sooner or later, it will become acceptable. And anyway, it isn't _that_ big a deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hills420 Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 me and me gurl are both 18 and i stay over at her house all the time, when we do sleep its in the same bed (its even a small one).? she lives with her mom, older sister (like 20 or 21) and her sisters son whos 2.? i dont think anyone minds, becuz her nefu come in every once in a while and lays down with us. and like a week ago me gurl was gonna go take a shower then go to bed, but i didn't leave for like 2 hours becuse her nefew wanted to join her and also wanted me to join in, and we had to wait till he fell asleep 585201573[/snapback] Join her in the shower??? Join in??? WTF!!:huh:h: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 This is like the situation i was in about 3 years ago. I lived 3-4 hours away so used to go over for weekends. We always had seperate beds and she also had 2 younger sisters. I never used to mind it, though she would still sneak in to my bed and then i would be 'forced' to fool around :D (honest i was forced... No really i was... im not joking!... Ok well maybe i wasnt, but still she started it!) When she came to my house we where aloud to stay in the same bed though. My parents were not to happy about the situation, but said as they live in a new world to how it was when they where younger, they would be lenient. My advice would be not to push it. If you think anything of this girl, you will be willing to wait until later in your life for 'messing around' anyway? Right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 me and me gurl are both 18 and i stay over at her house all the time, when we do sleep its in the same bed (its even a small one). she lives with her mom, older sister (like 20 or 21) and her sisters son whos 2. i dont think anyone minds, becuz her nefu come in every once in a while and lays down with us. and like a week ago me gurl was gonna go take a shower then go to bed, but i didn't leave for like 2 hours becuse her nefew wanted to join her and also wanted me to join in, and we had to wait till he fell asleep 585201573[/snapback] OMG! The Nephew wanted to join you both!? :huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean l Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 Regardless of how old said party is, I think respect should come into play. You should respect them for letting you sleep over at all(once again, regardless of age). Another point I would like to make is what do you have to gain from sleeping in the same bed anyway? The way I see it, nothing. The only thing you gain by sleeping in the same bed as her is someone breathing down your neck and stealing the blanket. When I was little and I would sleep over at a friends house, I(we) never asked to sleep in the same bed. I think It had to do with the fact we had nothing to gain from it. Now from a parents POV, you have to look at it like "well, why the hell would they want to sleep in the same bed anyway, they are just sleeping.." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuckeratlarge Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 I'd sleep with my girlfriend at my parents house but they would tell my wife! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kachie Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 its good if parents dont notice anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exc Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 I'd sleep with my girlfriend at my parents house but they would tell my wife! 585204474[/snapback] lmao if it was me id just talk to the parents and see how they feel about it and just go with that.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
username Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 your girlfiend has nice and respectful parents, seriously (Y) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lexcyn Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 I don't think I would ever be allowed to spend the night at my girlfriends, except if they were away and didn't know about it. Even if they did let me sleep there with them knowing, I would be banished to the basement. :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Mayer Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 I'll tell you three stories regarding this: I'm now 19. 1) The first time I ever stayed the night with a girl I was 15. Her parents were gone for some reason and I slept in her bed with her. 2) I recently ended a relationship with a girl that had a freaky sex drive. She wanted me to stay the night as much as I could possibly and she lived 45 mins away. Her parents wouldn't care if I stayed the night so long as we kept the door open. Her parents weren't free-joying hippies by any means. In fact her mother took her to get birth control when she started her period. I wasn't going to argue with this. 3) I'm now pretty close to seeing a girl who is 24. Haven't taken the dive into relationship status (don't know if I will yet or not). On Xmas she called me (quite drunk). "Mike you've got to come over, I really want you here..." So I went. It was a freakin family event... Played some poker, drank some shots, did the normal holiday thing. I stayed with her that night in her mother's house. ---- Basically my point is: (and was also said before): Parent's house, parent's rules. If you respect the girl you must respect the parents. --- I've been lucky about these sorts of things. Crazy californian families right? *sigh* I always post pointless posts. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suicide_pact Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 You've gotta' respect the rules in their house. But if you start living together or get married, turn the tables if they stay with you. Tell them that even tho' they're married, they have to sleep separately. If they balk at this, just stay "when you stay under my roof, you follow my rules." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enriq760 Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 when my sister's bf comes to my house they can sleep together.. of course they don't fool around...well not that i know.. :unsure: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilroy-was-here Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 I say don't fool around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sean B. Veteran Posted January 2, 2005 Veteran Share Posted January 2, 2005 I think it's okay for a couple to sleep together in the parents house, as long as they don't do anything. I mean that would be totaly disrespectfull if someone did...My parents would kill me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stezo2k Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 prefer sleeping together, but i also prefer "fooling around" everytime i slept (as in sleep) with my ex i always wanted sex when i woke up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
golazo Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 i just tell my parents that we were play fighting for a while lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jokeripa Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 wheres option for same bed + fooling around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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