Have you ever been cheated on?


Have you ever been cheated on?  

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  1. 1. Have you ever been cheated on?

    • Yes
      87
    • No
      82


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Heh, I'm 13  :ninja: I feel soooooo alone  :cry:

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Man I was 13 when I was on this site and didn't have a girl friend.

Actualy my birthday is May 1st so I was on neowin two months after I turned 13.

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Wait, i don't understand.

Are you saying that you will cheat on the person you're dating if you find out that they've been cheating on you? Or are you saying that you're OK with cheating on other people because someone else cheated on you in the past?

Either way it seems silly. In the first case, why wouldn't you just break up with them if you found out they were cheating. And in the second case, how is that fair to the other people at all?

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Well if someone cheats on me then of course I break up with them, in theory, but in practice this has never worked. It was messy. But I stopped caring about the whole "stay faithful" stuff in that relationship.

And no I'm not ok with cheating on other people because of what a few did. However, they did make me, how can put this, less idealistic about the whole romance thing.

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Probably. I wouldn't know. The relationship I have now is pretty good and I haven't been cheated on that I know of.

I trust her, so not in the current, but probably in the past ones.

o_O

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yeah, once or twice(seperate instances, not more than once with the same person, Im not that dumb...). asked me to go to a party with her, then made out with another guy the whole night, ######-bag....

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Suspected twice, confirmed once. Of course I've also been accused of it (wrongly though) so I'll just stick with once and give the person the benefit of the doubt. Kinda makes it hard to trust people, but yeah...

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I voted yes. She wasn't faithful to me anyway. It was her loss..and my gain ;) My current girlfriend, Erin, is wonderful.

P.S. breaking up has always been messy. Never once it wasn't.. the harder part is to get on life with it. There is no push, but for some people, it is a freedom and a relief. For me, however, it was down time until I found new love (not a good approach by the way).

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I've cheated and been cheated on. But the most of I done for cheating on someone is feeling another girl up (which would be like a visit to the strippers) and kissed someone. I'm not proud of it at all actually.

As for being cheated on, the worst instance occured when I had fallen in love with someone. We dated for a while and then about a month or two in she told me "Oh yeah, I'm sorry but I slept with my ex-boyfiend about a week into our relationship when you went out west for your vacation. Sorry"

We worked things out, talked about it, found out it will never happen again, then she dumped me and dated my close friend.

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Yea, I was cheated on. When I had my first girlfriend I found out she was just using me... :cry: to make her other b/f jealous, and eventually while I dating her, she started dating him. :crazy:

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Yep, twice. The first time I took it and just broke up with the girl. The second time I was cheated on, I slept with the girl's roommate for about a month, then broke up with her. The roommate was a girl that the 2nd ex had grown up with, which basically ruined their friendship (they ended up having it out and breaking the lease on their apt to get away from each other, etc).

It was beautiful payback, and I didn't lose a wink of sleep over it.

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Yeah. She was my first and last girlfriend. She wasn't too smart; in the middle of a phone call, she said out of the blue "nothing is going on between me and Rhys", and yet I'd heard no such rumour that something had been going on in the first place. But I'll admit, I sucked at being a boyfriend. I wasn't ready for it and I don't think I'll be ready for another relationship for a while yet, even though a full six years have passed since then.

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