Have you ever been unfaithful


Have you ever been unfaithful to a girlfriend or boyfriend?  

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  1. 1. Have you ever been unfaithful to a girlfriend or boyfriend?

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I have cheated before, a couple times. I guess I don't know why I did it. I was in the wrong, and knew it was wrong but still did. I came to a point where I had gotten so unhappy with things that I seeked happiness in the wrong way that didn't fulfill my happiness long term. I now will break anything off if I feel the slightest bit unhappy to the point that I would consider sleeping with another woman. Now that I am single, I can be a man slut without worrying about cheating but that is beside the point.

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Yep, was with a girl (Miss S) for 18 months and lost her to 1 minute of drunken snogging.

we made up, but never got back together properly and she was about to go away to uni.

She said "what will be, will be", and that if it was meant to be, then we will wait for each other and get back together in 3 years time. (Her uni was 4 hours drive from home, and long distance relationships aren't good)

Well we had a little falling out whilst she was at uni, as I couldn't let go of what we had, and pestered her. she got annoyed and said not to contact her again.

So I moved on, and got on with my life, but always kind of wondered what happened to her.

She got back in touch with me after 3 years, and wanted to meet up. I thought I was doing the right thing saying that I had moved on, and didn't think it was right to get back with her. (I had a new girlfriend (Miss L) for 1 year already.

This year, I was on holiday with a new girlfriend (Miss L) of 2 years now, and I woke up one morning and thought. "This isn't right. I don't want to be in this relationship anymore."

We broke up on holiday, it was pretty cruel, but I just didn't want to be with her anymore.

The day I got back into the country I had organised to go out with my friends. When I got there, I told them the news that I had had split up with Miss L.

The first bar we walk into, I saw Miss S my old girlfriend sat there with her friends. I hadn't seen her in 4 years and the first day that I'm single and the day I get back from holiday, she's there in my usual bar.

I said hello, and asked if it was ok to give her an email. of course it was.

It turns out that she had been thinking of me alot, and wanted to give it another go.

We've been together 3 months now. :D

(Sounds like the synopsis of a Freddie Prince Jnr movie :p )

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nope. i'm glad for it. its not worth losing my bf over a pointless fling.

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It never is. I'm stupid for making the mistake and I thought I had lost everything. Was a pretty bad time for me getting over it.

I learn from my mistakes, and will never do it again. It's pretty much the worst thing I ever done.

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Nope, and the way that I see it...

...would I like it if my girlfriend (if I had one :() cheated on me?!?! Obviously not, and obviously she wouldn't like it if I cheated on her!

Moral of this story, is to treat others the way that you would like to be treated yourself :p

EDIT: Lunamonkey I'm glad things all worked out for you :D

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Have you?

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Yes, when I started going out 20 years ago with my current fiance.

The Woman I left her for I also was seeing someone else nearer me, an older Woman, but ever since my short affair (last 19 years ago) been faithful.

I saw the first and second as I was young, was a teen and at that age you usually have a few different GF's.

Not like I was married or engaged or had been going out with my current Woman that long.

Just testing the water and finding my feet. I didn't have sexual intercourse with the Women I had affairs with, so that should count in my favour :ninja:

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nope never i had one of my ex cheat on me not the nicest thing to do..but watever she got it back in the end...wat goes around comes aroud :)

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I am proud to say I have never been unfaithful in my life.

And as robertobaggio2k stated, I have been cheated on and what goes around DOES come around BIG TIME, just ask my ex :p

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Lets just say if its a girl I really like that Im going out with then I wouldnt cheat on her...so yeah

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Yeah, I cheated on several people, and never felt guilt over it. The last time I repeated this apalling behaviour I actually felt bad about it though, enough not to do it again.

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