Would you be ashamed if your child was straight?


Would you be ashamed if your child was straight?  

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  1. 1. Would you be ashamed if your child was straight?

    • yes
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    • no
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You, Sir, are a moron. You cannot group every homosexual under one 'lifestyle'. The only thing all homosexuals have in common with each other is that they are sexually attracted to their own gender.

There are myriad types of lifestyles within the homosexual community as there are within the heterosexual community. Promiscuity is not unique to homosexuals!

Why is the divorce rate in the USA so high there buddy boy? Those are straight people getting divorced, separating straight families and leaving their children torn between two homes. That's pretty damned fvcked up and destructive if you ask me.

You've got your ueber manly-man on the straight side just like we've got our flaming campy feminie acting guys on our side.

You just hate us so much that you have to find 'something' to make your hatred and bigotry make sense.

Unfortunately, saying that the homosexual lifestyle is destructive is a cheap, ignorant and absurd way to make your argument. There are gays that are promiscuous, there are gays out there that don't want committment, that fvck everything in site; but the same can be said for heterosexuals. I'm not knocking heterosexuals, people are the way they are; promiscuity and infidelity can be found ACROSS the board; disease can be transmitted from BOTH sides, so please tell me in your bigot opinion, what unique destructive quality we have in OUR lifestyle that hurts you so much? I don't blame heterosexuality for the divorce rate in this country, I blame the PEOPLE, the HUMAN element not the sexually-oriented element.

You friggen bigots are all so blinded by your faith that you compare apples with oranges.

Stop, really; no really, just stop for a second and think about it. We are not all the same. There are some gays that don't even practice sex, does that make them not gay? Being gay isn't the lifestyle, it's just who the person is attracted to, get that straight! If you want to attack promiscuity, then attack it by all means, but it's not our unique trait. If you want to attack infidelity as the cause for the downfall of our society, then you're going to have to attack infidelity in ALL its forms, HOMO and HETERO; and I'll agree with you, infidelity and promiscuity are detrimental to families and happiness, you can't just say GAY promiscuity is the problem or GAY infidelity is the problem.

Get a clue man, really.

Edit:

And I don't think this post was stupid, it served a very good point which I think the OP intended. I think he was trying

to say with his post that asking the question the other way around ( as in the other post ) was in itself stupid because you

should love your children unconditionally, and if you're ashamed of your child for any reason, then it does not qualify as unconditional love.

The thread was started to prove a point, I think; not really to gauge anyone's opinion. Both polls should have had

100% in favor of no.

While I agree with most of your points, faith is really being misused in this argument, on both sides. Christianity states that humans are sinful, and that God forgives us as long as we accept Jesus Christ as our savior. Additionally, Christianity also states that we are not to judge; only God can do so. Whether or not homosexuality is a sin is obviously up for debate, but it should be no basis for disowning a child. That's the same as disowning a child because they stole some candy from the grocery store.

So, all you people who are saying that you would reject a child if he/she were gay, you really need to become more acquainted with the religion that you claim to know so well. According to the Bible, you are not to judge your children. If you believe that they should be straight, then you can tell them so, but you certainly have no right to judge them if they are not. Unless, of course, you are sinless yourself (ha!).

Additionally, everyone who seems to think that these people are hiding behind their faith - they are hiding behind a false interpretation of it. Call them out on that instead, as Christianity teaches forgiveness and meaningful relationships, not rejection.

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It would depend on how curved they were. :|

I dont really mind lesbians but I dont think I would want a gay son. :o

P.S. Ok I like lesbians.

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If my kids turn out gay... They better leave the house lol....

that's not even funny man.

Some of my friends were kicked out of their homes when they came out to their parents.

For all the straight people out there who would kick their kid out because he or she was gay, what if the roles were reversed. Should a same sex couple kick their kid out on the street because he or she is straight?

I'm gay and I was lucky to have understanding parents who weren't closed minded and didn't kick me out when I told them I was gay...and my mom kicked my dad out because he cheated on her when I was 8, so I agree with the person who said that promiscuity isn't just a gay issue. There are some gays who believe in monogamy and those that don't, just like straight people. There are open relationships in the gay world, just like in the straight world.

If I even ended up having a kid, either through adoption or biologically, I wouldn't care wether it would become gay or straight, I'd just want him or her to be happy and be themselves and not try to hide who they are just to conform to society's expectation.

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i unno, i think i would like to hear more about this topic from anyone who might be gay on neowin. Its a valid topic, but i wonder how gay parets feel or would be feel about raising a straight boy/girl. :)

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This thread is what is commonly referred to as "trolling" :whistle:

Without making this thread bcoming a war, I'd like to know why these 2 peeps have votes yes. I know that its their opinion. So if uve selected yes, may I know the reason?

I think it's because they want the world to end. That, or they hate straight people.

BAM! That's the magic question. And the answer is NO. Anybody who answers yes is just grabbing at the air for excuses.

I don't think it's a choice. I think true homosexuals are merely the byproduct of a genetic mutation/mental illness.

There are people who "choose" to be gay, but those are not true homosexuals.

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I'm saying this in all honesty....This most definatly is the stupidest question I have ever heard...in my entire goddamn life....and I've heard MANY MANY MANY stupid questions....Anyway, when the "stupid thread" grammy's arrive, this one has my vote.

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Your parents were straight. Your grandparents were straight. Your great-grandparents were straight.

Statistically speaking, you're probably straight too.

Really? Leaving aside the laughable "fact" about anyone's parents or grandparents being straight, are you saying that gay people are the result of gay conception? Are you actually saying that statistically, if your parents were straight, so are you? Where the hell do you think gay people come from, alien spaceships? :blink:

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