Louis Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Spank me baby! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lasker Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 I was a ****ing ****** as a kid, I punched my older sister many times, and received punished, so I think was fair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted January 17, 2006 Subscriber² Share Posted January 17, 2006 Spank me baby! Glad you find it appropriate to make light of this topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gusto5 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 i come from a culture and timeframe where physical and verbal beatings are an appropriate form of discipline. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger H. Veteran Posted January 17, 2006 Veteran Share Posted January 17, 2006 Man i got my ass whupped almost everyday. Then again i'm Jamaican so i guess... but i bet you never saw any of us turning out to be axe murders cuz "he was abused as a child" Every kid in jamaica gets their ass whupped and life there still pretty nice besides a few retards that think they big and tough so gotta cause problems but everywhere has that. I'd get spankings for stuff my brother did that i allowed him to. LOL Or my neighbors saw me misbehaving and spanked me then told my mom and then i got another spanking then she told my dad and i got another spanking. Made me a tougher guy today and i don't hate my parents cuz of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cork1958 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Not at all. Sure, my dad would smack me with a board/paddle or, just put his foot up my a** when necessary (a lot more of this needs to be done today too!), but nothing I'd call abusive or didn't have coming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Man i got my ass whupped almost everyday. Then again i'm Jamaican so i guess... but i bet you never saw any of us turning out to be axe murders cuz "he was abused as a child" Every kid in jamaica gets their ass whupped and life there still pretty nice besides a few retards that think they big and tough so gotta cause problems but everywhere has that. I'd get spankings for stuff my brother did that i allowed him to. LOL Or my neighbors saw me misbehaving and spanked me then told my mom and then i got another spanking then she told my dad and i got another spanking. Made me a tougher guy today and i don't hate my parents cuz of it. There is a great difference between a spanking even from many, especially if your culture is like that and all most all other children are getting that, compaired to getting beaten shi*less and with hard objects for almost nothing. if this had happened to someone in England there would most likely be a court case and/or the family would give the neighbour that hit you a lot of grief. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crimsonhead Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 @njlouch: Anyone who publishes their story is successful in my book. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+dave164 Subscriber¹ Posted January 17, 2006 Subscriber¹ Share Posted January 17, 2006 Best parents ever, swear a bit and dont let me buy what i want immediately which i hate, but yeh cant ask for much more.. Feel sorry for the ones who do. -D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted January 17, 2006 Subscriber² Share Posted January 17, 2006 Rich: My feeling is this - a smack on the ass is a legitimate form of punishment. The idea would not be to inflict pain and suffering, but rather to create that negative association with a childs punishable acts. If there is any malice in it, then that's when it becomes abusive. But now kids have so little to fear, they grow up with no dicipline. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
game_over Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 never been abused in anyway or form, and this has absolutly nothing to do with kids who have a bad up bringing... i've had all the freedom i've ever wanted from a very early age, was aloud to stay out or up and make my own decisions for as far back as i can rememeber, but also had a good up bringing, of course their has been arguments over stupid things i may have good, i remember also getting a good kickin once when i said i didnt need parents in an argument, but i couldnt ask for better parents... my dads the koolest person i know, and even all my mates idol him, maybe not for the right reasons... but he's like a mate, he allows me to take drugs and hide it from my mom, bring my gf home and stay out aslong as i want when i want, but about all this i'm well educated and know my limited, he has tought me about drugs and the streets and girls since i was a boy... and ive turned out great got a good girlfriend, life, and career and only have my parents to thank for it, yet some people may reflect on the up bringng as bad especially wen i tell ppl my dad knows i take drugs but these people are people who know nothing!!!!!!!! i've also got a mum who still cooks my meals every day, does my bate for work and only charges me ?40 lodge a month even though our internet bill is 40, lol. i offer more but she wont take it... yet some of my friends pay up to around ?130+ a month for lodge and dont get half the treatment i get, i'm very lucky and feel so sorry for people who have been abused n such n not experienced it, i only hope you dont go the same way your parents have and bring your kids up in a way you thinks right... and thats a far better experience., Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Rich: My feeling is this - a smack on the ass is a legitimate form of punishment. The idea would not be to inflict pain and suffering, but rather to create that negative association with a childs punishable acts. If there is any malice in it, then that's when it becomes abusive. But now kids have so little to fear, they grow up with no dicipline. I agree 100%. A controlled smack is fine, not to be done to often, just often enough to keep the child in ine and only when they have done something very bad. Smacking for little things is what i would call abuse.... ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- johnny comes home and gets an F in his Math assignment. His parents say oh well, lets see what we can do to help you do better next time. Thats good :D ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Johnny comes home and has got an F for his math assignment. His parents fly off the handle and smack him and tell him how dumb he is. Thats bad :no: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Dick C. Normous Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 This has really turned out to be a good thread. I'm really surprised to see so many sharing such deep stories. I feel you've left at least one option from the poll. Mental abuse is very real and it affects just as many as the others. I was never beat, Hell I'm 25 and I was only spanked once. There was some verbal abuse but I just wrote that off as drunken bull**** from two morons. The one thing that sticks out in my memory most of all actually had nothing to do with me. I just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I walked down the basement stairs to see my dad breaking a pool cue over my moms? ribcage. It was a horrible sight seeing my dad in full swing and then my mom doubled over. It's a picture I will never be able to get out of my head. My mom was no angel either. In the past she has slit my dads belly with a butcher knife and another time broke a nail polish bottle on his forehead. Thankfully I didn't witness these times. I did have my dad locked up one night though. He punched or slapped (still not certain which) my mother hard enough to make her nose bleed. I didn't ask many questions other than "Who did this?" That was all I needed to make the call. There are many more stories I could write about, like the time I literally dragged my mom home for ten blocks but I think you get the picture. Not all abuse leaves visible scars. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan420 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Yeah in todays day and age you need to be carefull of what is abuse and what is a parent ust pushing their child in the right direction. Even though i have a different past, i still think that today the child has to much right over the parents and the parents are unable to lookafter their child as they see fit. Smacking is now banned in the UK yet if i had children and they went out and mugged an old man, i would ground them for months, give them a good smack and set them a whole number of chorse and restrictions like no TV etc. Then again i would hope my children would be bought up to respect the elderly as i do and not go round in gangs doing mindless and pointless crimes. Maybe he shouldnt have used the strap, i agree. Maybe it is just how your post is written, but you sound like you had disiplin issues anyway. I do not think that being locked in a room and not being allowed out at recess if you are bad is a bad thing at all. This was expected in my school and you would be made to write lines on the board until your arm hurt. This gave us respect to the teachers and if they told us to do it, we would. I dont think that kicking his ass with a bat was a good idea, but then if you have been met with violence all your life like that then it is only to be expected. ok then doctor phil hahahaha but really he "special skool was like a prison camp" the one kid the locked i nthe room had to goto the bathroom and the teacher wouldnt let him so ****ed an shat everywere so it smelt bad in there from then on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Dick Montage Subscriber² Posted January 17, 2006 Subscriber² Share Posted January 17, 2006 ryan420: Where was this scool - that's so appalling it's VERY hard to believe. Was this place supposed to institutionalise you or "straighten" you out? The way you are typing what you are comes off like boasting almost!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowRanger13 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 16 and haven't been yet. Still got a few years, we'll see what happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forster Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 --->>>> Real World Issues This really shouldnt be in the General Discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 This has really turned out to be a good thread. I'm really surprised to see so many sharing such deep stories. I feel you've left at least one option from the poll. Mental abuse is very real and it affects just as many as the others. I was never beat, Hell I'm 25 and I was only spanked once. There was some verbal abuse but I just wrote that off as drunken bull**** from two morons. The one thing that sticks out in my memory most of all actually had nothing to do with me. I just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I walked down the basement stairs to see my dad breaking a pool cue over my moms? ribcage. It was a horrible sight seeing my dad in full swing and then my mom doubled over. It's a picture I will never be able to get out of my head. My mom was no angel either. In the past she has slit my dads belly with a butcher knife and another time broke a nail polish bottle on his forehead. Thankfully I didn't witness these times. I did have my dad locked up one night though. He punched or slapped (still not certain which) my mother hard enough to make her nose bleed. I didn't ask many questions other than "Who did this?" That was all I needed to make the call. There are many more stories I could write about, like the time I literally dragged my mom home for ten blocks but I think you get the picture. Not all abuse leaves visible scars. Wow. Thats harsh mate. Sorry to hear you turned out ok though from the sound of it. Still not nice seeing that. My grandad left my nan when my dad was a boy, because he used to hit her about. ryan420: Where was this scool - that's so appalling it's VERY hard to believe. Was this place supposed to institutionalise you or "straighten" you out? The way you are typing what you are comes off like boasting almost!? Boasting and the writing sounds very childish as well. I would say this was being written by someone very young as it is. --->>>> Real World Issues This really shouldnt be in the General Discussion. Yeah i agree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live. Posted January 18, 2006 Share Posted January 18, 2006 no :sleep: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted January 18, 2006 Share Posted January 18, 2006 no :sleep: Tired mate? :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jago_lfn Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 would being ignored alot be considered abuse? My parents had more time for each other than they did me. My dad was gone all the time too so bleh... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panacik Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 never been abused in anyway or form, and this has absolutly nothing to do with kids who have a bad up bringing... i've had all the freedom i've ever wanted from a very early age, was aloud to stay out or up and make my own decisions for as far back as i can rememeber, but also had a good up bringing, of course their has been arguments over stupid things i may have good, i remember also getting a good kickin once when i said i didnt need parents in an argument, but i couldnt ask for better parents... my dads the koolest person i know, and even all my mates idol him, maybe not for the right reasons... but he's like a mate, he allows me to take drugs and hide it from my mom, bring my gf home and stay out aslong as i want when i want, but about all this i'm well educated and know my limited, he has tought me about drugs and the streets and girls since i was a boy... and ive turned out great got a good girlfriend, life, and career and only have my parents to thank for it, yet some people may reflect on the up bringng as bad especially wen i tell ppl my dad knows i take drugs but these people are people who know nothing!!!!!!!! i've also got a mum who still cooks my meals every day, does my bate for work and only charges me ?40 lodge a month even though our internet bill is 40, lol. i offer more but she wont take it... yet some of my friends pay up to around ?130+ a month for lodge and dont get half the treatment i get, i'm very lucky and feel so sorry for people who have been abused n such n not experienced it, i only hope you dont go the same way your parents have and bring your kids up in a way you thinks right... and thats a far better experience., I wouldnt say you where abused. Sounds like your upbringing was different to others, but not bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x-scratch Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 i put yes for physically my dad always beat me & my older sister & he ended up breaknig 2 of my ribs if i ever see my dad ever again i would bust his jaw into several peices im 28 now & this happend when i was 14 im against people beating kids & men beating wifes let somebody beat the crap outta you how would you feel thats what i thought Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frease Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 My Mum.. that's all... don't wish to reveal any details since it was in the past Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt T Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 I was smacked (or "spanked") when I was young if I was bad, but otherwise no. After a few beers, my dad would verbally abuse both my mother and myself, nothing too serious thank god. My parents are still happy and married, and I turned out fine, so I voted no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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