mAcOdIn Veteran Posted January 12, 2006 Veteran Share Posted January 12, 2006 Why do all you fools think money is so Perhaps American women are lazy b*tches who can't be bothered to work? No, I think it's ingrained into our minds by the tube, but most women work over here too. I think that basically we've heard it for so long that we almost believe it to be true and just use it as an excuse whenever a relationship fails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CDog Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I'd like to think it comes down to wanting a man for the person he is... thinking of my ex, things don't always work that way though nonetheless, that's how I'd like to think women work. Besides, it's impossible to brand/steriotype that all women have a single need from a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macstorm Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 a combo from all above, definitively ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunamonkey Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now, but we actually met and dated for 2 years, 6 years ago (yeah....anyway). I have no idea why she likes me, I think we just have a laugh together, have a good social life together, enjoy the same beer, same dvds, mostly chick flicks though. It's definitely not for my money, she has more cash than me, although I own my house + car and she doesn't. We are also fake-telepathic. It's weird, but I think we can just read each other faces well. We're pretty much sorted together, I don't think there's anyone better for me. Maybe there's better for her, but meh, at the moment it's all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+E.Worm Jimmy Subscriber¹ Posted January 12, 2006 Subscriber¹ Share Posted January 12, 2006 If the man is: Confident and can lead her, dangerous and exiting, can see through her little games and does not take her crap, yet completely honest and considerate. Then the panties drop down. and stuff like money and looks take much lesser priority. BTW, status is a big one too. not money, but the fact that the others respect you is important for girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pacifica Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 the ability to READ THEIR MINDS!!!!!! married guys, you know what i'm talking about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n30w1n Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Let me put it this way, women want to be abused. That is, they're not looking for you to abuse them, but if you don't, they are not going to remain attracted to you for long. Women are nothing more than cats, they will come to you when you least try to grab them and will run away when you want them to come. Women don't want a nice guy, they have girlfriends for that. They want a thrilling guy, a guy who makes them feel alive, a guy who unleashes the wild side they'd never show the rest of the world, a guy who makes things interesting and lets them enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If a woman feels that she's "conquered" you, she gets bored and leaves. You have to stay fresh, tease her, make her feel that you're not whipped and she's still got lots of levels to play before passing the game which is you. It's not a coincidence that lots of women go for the "other jerk" when you've been the "nicest guy" trying to get her. They don't really care about you or the other guy. They're simply looking for the more challanging game, penises aside. It's why so many times women cheat, or women are not interested when you're head over heels for her, and when you try to talk to her, she's completely blank about it. She doesn't care she's hurting you, she doesn't even understand it. She doesn't even know why she's attracted to that other guy over you! But I know, and I'm sharing it with you right now... Women are typically bigger jerks than men, at least men are open about it when we're ######. Keeping women's interest comes in many ways. It really depands on the woman. If a woman is intelligent, you have to be smarter than she is and point it out. If a woman is beautiful, you have to act as if she's nothing special and tease her. Whatever you do, just keep pulling the rope from each other. I'm sure some guys here will disagree with me, I think those guys simply don't understand woman psyche well. Hell, women don't understand woman psyche and half of them will think I'm some sort of retard for saying this. But it makes more sense than some of you may think. If you're a woman reading this, think for a minute before shooting me down. I'm not insulting you, merely uncovering your dirty secrets. In some rare occasions women do want a nice guy, but only when they're looking to settle down and get married. That is not the ideal situation because it doesn't build relationships the way they're subconciously craving. It's why it's hard for some couples to keep the excitement in marrige, everything becomes predictable. Sometimes there is no more play, there is no more hunt, no more thrill. And that my friend, is what women want. Whether they are aware of it on a conscious level or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revvo Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Every really hott girl has at least one major backdraw, that's what me and my friend have concluded out of our very scientific research. They always look at the looks and wealth, because that's all they can see or know about an unknown guy and same goes for us with girls. Many breakup afterwards realizing that he's an ###### even though he "has it all". Even with this great fact about them, many still go for it for what they have and not what they are, and end up caring about what they are later in the relationship. What I think women really want is meatspin, if you know what I mean :shifty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giantsnyy Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 what i've seen is that women love going after looks but if theres nothing there in terms of personality they tend to drift away from you. I think women would like the best of both worlds, looks and personality but sometimes the person they find is lacking in either category. for example, me... girl goes after me b/c of my looks but ends up drifting away because even tho i may be a funny person at times, and i consider myself an intellectual, I don't communicate properly... as in I barely ever talked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazzy88ss Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 https://www.neowin.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=287641 only 51 people voted themselves as famale, yet over 70 have voted in this poll! :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wodin Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 In essence the category of desired traits that most women prefer over all else are those traits that make a mate a good provider, loyal, and easy to get along with. Physical attractiveness tends to fall only at about 3rd or 4th most important. Bullcrap! This is what they say maybe. Captain Chump had it right. Women go for men who they are attracted to, and nothing else matters. If they could only see them for the losers they are like I do. But I'm the same way. Same post said men go for looks, and I'm guilty. And good looking women are almost always self centered and self absorbed. But if every woman I met was trying to get in my pants I'm sure I would be the same way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+E.Worm Jimmy Subscriber¹ Posted January 13, 2006 Subscriber¹ Share Posted January 13, 2006 Let me put it this way, women want to be abused. That is, they're not looking for you to abuse them, but if you don't, they are not going to remain attracted to you for long. Women are nothing more than cats, they will come to you when you least try to grab them and will run away when you want them to come. Women don't want a nice guy, they have girlfriends for that. They want a thrilling guy, a guy who makes them feel alive, a guy who unleashes the wild side they'd never show the rest of the world, a guy who makes things interesting and lets them enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If a woman feels that she's "conquered" you, she gets bored and leaves. You have to stay fresh, tease her, make her feel that you're not whipped and she's still got lots of levels to play before passing the game which is you. It's not a coincidence that lots of women go for the "other jerk" when you've been the "nicest guy" trying to get her. They don't really care about you or the other guy. They're simply looking for the more challanging game, penises aside. It's why so many times women cheat, or women are not interested when you're head over heels for her, and when you try to talk to her, she's completely blank about it. She doesn't care she's hurting you, she doesn't even understand it. She doesn't even know why she's attracted to that other guy over you! But I know, and I'm sharing it with you right now... Women are typically bigger jerks than men, at least men are open about it when we're ######. Keeping women's interest comes in many ways. It really depands on the woman. If a woman is intelligent, you have to be smarter than she is and point it out. If a woman is beautiful, you have to act as if she's nothing special and tease her. Whatever you do, just keep pulling the rope from each other. I'm sure some guys here will disagree with me, I think those guys simply don't understand woman psyche well. Hell, women don't understand woman psyche and half of them will think I'm some sort of retard for saying this. But it makes more sense than some of you may think. If you're a woman reading this, think for a minute before shooting me down. I'm not insulting you, merely uncovering your dirty secrets. In some rare occasions women do want a nice guy, but only when they're looking to settle down and get married. That is not the ideal situation because it doesn't build relationships the way they're subconciously craving. It's why it's hard for some couples to keep the excitement in marrige, everything becomes predictable. Sometimes there is no more play, there is no more hunt, no more thrill. And that my friend, is what women want. Whether they are aware of it on a conscious level or not. quoted for truth. as i said confidence is the esential thing, without it how can you ever be thrilling or unleash the wild side :pinch: be unpredictable and exiting, while showing her that she can trust you and be wild with you. (easy to advice, not so easy to live it in real life... but its worth it) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubicant78 Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 the ability to READ THEIR MINDS!!!!!! married guys, you know what i'm talking about Heheh.. We are required to read their minds but NEVER tell them what you think she is thinking because you are WRONG even though you are right. I honestly think there are some translation issues there. Women were taught a different version of English than men. Example: I'm tired=No I have a headache=No I have to wash my hair=No I love you=Let's go shopping. Nothing=Something That car looks nice=Buy it now or you won't get any for a month. Forgive the bitterness... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubicant78 Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Let me put it this way, women want to be abused. That is, they're not looking for you to abuse them, but if you don't, they are not going to remain attracted to you for long. Women are nothing more than cats, they will come to you when you least try to grab them and will run away when you want them to come. Women don't want a nice guy, they have girlfriends for that. They want a thrilling guy, a guy who makes them feel alive, a guy who unleashes the wild side they'd never show the rest of the world, a guy who makes things interesting and lets them enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If a woman feels that she's "conquered" you, she gets bored and leaves. You have to stay fresh, tease her, make her feel that you're not whipped and she's still got lots of levels to play before passing the game which is you. It's not a coincidence that lots of women go for the "other jerk" when you've been the "nicest guy" trying to get her. They don't really care about you or the other guy. They're simply looking for the more challanging game, penises aside. It's why so many times women cheat, or women are not interested when you're head over heels for her, and when you try to talk to her, she's completely blank about it. She doesn't care she's hurting you, she doesn't even understand it. She doesn't even know why she's attracted to that other guy over you! But I know, and I'm sharing it with you right now... Women are typically bigger jerks than men, at least men are open about it when we're ######. Keeping women's interest comes in many ways. It really depands on the woman. If a woman is intelligent, you have to be smarter than she is and point it out. If a woman is beautiful, you have to act as if she's nothing special and tease her. Whatever you do, just keep pulling the rope from each other. I'm sure some guys here will disagree with me, I think those guys simply don't understand woman psyche well. Hell, women don't understand woman psyche and half of them will think I'm some sort of retard for saying this. But it makes more sense than some of you may think. If you're a woman reading this, think for a minute before shooting me down. I'm not insulting you, merely uncovering your dirty secrets. In some rare occasions women do want a nice guy, but only when they're looking to settle down and get married. That is not the ideal situation because it doesn't build relationships the way they're subconciously craving. It's why it's hard for some couples to keep the excitement in marrige, everything becomes predictable. Sometimes there is no more play, there is no more hunt, no more thrill. And that my friend, is what women want. Whether they are aware of it on a conscious level or not. I tend to disagree with the abuse part. Women don't want to be abused. No one does. But some require a man stronger than them to lean on and to take charge. I do agree that they want some sort of thrill and will look elsewhere to get it if need be. I do believe that if your woman is beautiful, you must tell her occasionally. Don't overdo it but let it be known. Sure, it's ok to tease and whatnot. (My ex was 95lbs and i called her fatass occasionally, but she knew I was joking.) I dunno, maybe I don't know jack about relationships or women. I only know what I have seen. In my experience, it is money and materialistic things. Plain and simple. The other things play a role but a smaller one nonetheless. It's all about wanting more..... Pimped out ride + lotsa cash = FTW Regular people ride + lotsa cash =Loser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NikkiRox Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 well, i'm always attracted to the guy with a sense of humour. i love to laugh ^_^ and so when i found my bf, he made me laugh more than any other guy i've known. once i'm attracted to the sense of humour, i'm just attracted to everything else thats attached. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orange Battery Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 From my experience Id say every women out there is different in some little way, here is the clever bit - get to know them!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lhnz Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 They look for his popularity, and confidence. I basically mean they look for his social status. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THE BAT Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 all women/girls run after the wealth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MLIFE Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Talk about how bitter you guys sound, hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chopyaedoff Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 His looks? Which I lack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkpuma Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 Voted other. I have absolutely no idea what women look for in a guy- Everytime i think ive got it figured out my heart gets shredded for some reason..... I dont understand. I also dont understand what women look for when meeting guys. Some times i go out and im the biggest chick magnet, and other times i do the exact same things i'd normally do, and i dont meet a soul. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NikkiRox Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 all women/girls run after the wealth. i don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodwork Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 I chose "manhood" because it's true. I've never been hurt after I came to that realization. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cole Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Hmm, ever see the movie Hitch? Althought purely fiction, it does have it's moments. n30w1n's long post earlier on in this thread it probably is the most logical, he covers how my experience over the years has concluded to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnMarsten Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 As you could probably imagine there has been tons of research conducted on this question for both males and females. In essence the category of desired traits that most women prefer over all else are those traits that make a mate a good provider, loyal, and easy to get along with. Physical attractiveness tends to fall only at about 3rd or 4th most important. For men, good looks is most always #1. Why? It is easy to see why if you look at it from a biological position. What does a woman require in a mate? Well, to have children she will need a mate that will support her, provide food and shelter for her, not leave her while she is straddled with a baby. How about men? What do men need in a mate? A good genetic specimen from which to blend his DNA and produce a healthy offspring - then goodbye. Now obviously, we have evolved with societal mores that tell us how we 'should' act, but is is easy to see why some girls go for less attractive, but better providing and loyal partners and why men will go with the first hottie that bats an eyelash at him. Exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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