runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Topic says it all. I'm just wondering when it's best to have one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zachman123 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Elementary school isn't on here...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Author Share Posted February 21, 2006 Elementary school isn't on here...? Well, it was unintentionally left out, but most don't have gf at that period, I hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecaveman Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Well I'm half way to become like this guy but there was no opinion to vote for that :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zachman123 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Well, it was unintentionally left out, but most don't have gf at that period, I hope. I hope most don't at kindergarten either then :blink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Author Share Posted February 21, 2006 kindergarden? Wow you guys are insane :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninjagowoowoo Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 lol kindergarden and no elementary school? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerm Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Equivalent of kindergarten, but we didn't do anything, just kinda said 'will you go out with me?', 'yeah', and then that was it. Nothing more really. :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chosen One Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 grade 4 for me, had my first kiss...wasnt much...but it was a kiss :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel Blue01 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I've never had a girlfriend, I'm waiting for someone I love, probably after college. When I was in kindergarden my best friend was a girl does that count? :unsure: A girl asked me out my freshman year in high school so she could have been my girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ride365 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 You should be more specific with the question like: When was the first time you had a serious bf/gf? Most people have at least 1 one week dating thing. For some I think its as little as a day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Author Share Posted February 21, 2006 I've never had a girlfriend, I'm waiting for someone I love, probably after college. When I was in kindergarden my best friend was a girl does that count? :unsure: A girl asked me out my freshman year in high school so she could have been my girlfriend. Girlfriend means: 1. You kiss 2. You both have to like each other and have to openly admit so that the other person knows. You should be more specific with the question like: When was the first time you had a serious bf/gf? Most people have at least 1 one week dating thing. For some I think its as little as a day. Well yeah, but I'm not good with this, so try your best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaiCrunch Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Had my first girlfriend in second grade. I figured it was closer to kindergarten then middle school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E t h a n Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 First "proper" gf at 14, unless I was dreaming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Author Share Posted February 21, 2006 Had my first girlfriend in second grade. I figured it was closer to kindergarten then middle school. You mean you kissed and etc at that age? awww Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaiCrunch Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 You mean you kissed and etc at that age? awww Yep. Started early. Now ten years later, I can't get a girlfriend to save my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liandros Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 nope, no real girlfriend here. just me and my right hand...lol...seriously...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
P.M.K Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Well I would like to participate in this poll but I have no idea what these are Middle School High School - Freshman High School - Sophomore High School - Junior High School - Senior I'm assuming this is how schools in America are structured?? Are you aware that not everyone that uses this message board are located in the US?? For the people that live in Australia who would like to vote in this poll When did you first have a b/f or g/f. Primary School Secondary School University Sometime after Secondary School I had my first girlfriend just after Secondary School I was 17 by the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soothsayer Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I am perpetually single. When I find a girl that cares about me, and I reciprocate those feelings, I'll let you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
W1cked-J Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Dating life for me through school was messed up but I guess I could say my first Girlfriend was Sophomore year. My first serious relationship wasn't till after H.S. when I was 19. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raum Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Well, my first girlfriend that we'd actually schedule "dates," kiss etc was in 5th grade. My first in-depth relationship, the first one where I really started seeing what love with someone outside your family is like....that was started in 7th grade. Lasted a year into 8th grade. This was the first time I was sexual with someone too....we'd have oral together. As far as maturity and stuff goes, I'd say a good time for the average person to start dating is around late freshman / early sophmore year of highschool. Still young and naive, but having more skills and developments useful for maintaining a relationship over a long period of time. After me and that girl brok eup towards the end of 8th grade, I spent some time trying to replace her basically. Ended up hooking up with some slut a few cities away and she gave me a ###### on our first date then tried to get me to do her. I refused, knowing that my refusal was the right path. From that moment on I questioned myself and saw how little I care about sex in the grand scheme of things. For one, it didn't feel right with someone I didn't know or have feelings for like that to me. Two, it can't compare, IMO, to the feeling of mutual love with a person. I had some girlfriends my freshmen year, maybe 2 serious overall and little flings here and there. Then sophmore - senior year I had a couple serious ones. Nikita lasted for a long time, then right after her me and Deanna spent a wonderful few months together. Afterwards, was with my first girlfriend Kimmie for a while, before dating the girl I proposed to, Mindy. I still love them all deeply and thoughts of them drift to my mind daily. I still feel deeply for them, though I wish to go back out with none of them. They just are, and will remain, incredibly special people to me....always beautiful in my eyes. Then again, most people I see around my age (18 - 22) often can't handle a relationship, so there really is no general specific age to begin IMO. Some people seem to handle it better than others. IMO the key components of a good relationship are Honesty, Selflishness and Tenderness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningking7 Posted February 21, 2006 Author Share Posted February 21, 2006 Well, my first girlfriend that we'd actually schedule "dates," kiss etc was in 5th grade. My first in-depth relationship, the first one where I really started seeing what love with someone outside your family is like....that was started in 7th grade. Lasted a year into 8th grade. This was the first time I was sexual with someone too....we'd have oral together. As far as maturity and stuff goes, I'd say a good time for the average person to start dating is around late freshman / early sophmore year of highschool. Still young and naive, but having more skills and developments useful for maintaining a relationship over a long period of time. After me and that girl brok eup towards the end of 8th grade, I spent some time trying to replace her basically. Ended up hooking up with some slut a few cities away and she gave me a ###### on our first date then tried to get me to do her. I refused, knowing that my refusal was the right path. From that moment on I questioned myself and saw how little I care about sex in the grand scheme of things. For one, it didn't feel right with someone I didn't know or have feelings for like that to me. Two, it can't compare, IMO, to the feeling of mutual love with a person. I had some girlfriends my freshmen year, maybe 2 serious overall and little flings here and there. Then sophmore - senior year I had a couple serious ones. Nikita lasted for a long time, then right after her me and Deanna spent a wonderful few months together. Afterwards, was with my first girlfriend Kimmie for a while, before dating the girl I proposed to, Mindy. I still love them all deeply and thoughts of them drift to my mind daily. I still feel deeply for them, though I wish to go back out with none of them. They just are, and will remain, incredibly special people to me....always beautiful in my eyes. Then again, most people I see around my age (18 - 22) often can't handle a relationship, so there really is no general specific age to begin IMO. Some people seem to handle it better than others. IMO the key components of a good relationship are Honesty, Selflishness and Tenderness. Your last line contradicts what you said earlier :p Oh, and how is selfishness a key? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevcart3 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Adding to the list of single 4 life people here. Hopefully that will change sometime soon. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kernatch Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 never, single Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fit4130Rider Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I kissed my first girl in the first grade under the table during reading time. Those were the days... But I got my first real girlfriend my first year of college (19 years old) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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