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Call the police. Tell them you got assaulted and explain everything! Get a witness and see if you can get the camera footage, you should have done this earlier! Just because you are 15 doesn?t make it alright for people to beat you up. Fighting your own battles is a bunch of crap, one or the other gets hurt and I doubt it that anyone will come after you because these kids will be scared as hell. If they try anything else call the police again! Get a restraining order!

Do this correctly and you won?t have any problems, if you ignore it and take the beatings or gather people to go for another fight all you are doing is making it worse. Either they continue to pick on you or you start up even more fights possibly get hurt again or hurt someone else, use your head.

If a grown man got beat up in a parking lot believe me there would be police involved, why do you think it makes it okay for people to assault you if you are young?

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Shouldn't be done from one dude to another. Ever.

When someone comes up and tells you to beat it for no good reason, then starts beating on you, he just gave you carte blanche.

It's best to get some friends and exact your revenge. If you call the cops, and he gets arrested, he may just beat you up worse next time. Do what is necessary to make him stop... by force if you have to, thats what I'd do atleast. :)

Revenge is a bad idea, he'll likely just get more of his buddies to come back and beat up the OPs buddies. The OP should have defended himself, and his 'friends' should have stepped in as well. If the OP had defended himself and put up a good defence, that could have been the end of it; but if he goes and does something cheap like getting other people who weren't involved to go jump somebody, hes just making things more difficult.

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get some friends that are in their 20s and go kick his ass, as simple as that

That would be me in 5years time, hell yeah il always help people in need! :)

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Where do you live? Get all of Neowin to drop by his house. 70,000 people vs... I mean we could probably annexe your town if we put our minds to it 8-)

Nah the police will do nothing, and if you and your mates aren't confident enough to fight thats your loss... I've been attacked and not fought back, then attacked a second time and slapped the guy (I know I know, I was running at the time and did a kinda half swing half slap), which made him stop for a sec, then he continued I just got ready to kick him down and he ran off (people are extremely scared of martial arts it seems, even if you're only green belt and haven't done it for 2 years) and if a chav attacks me again? maybe i'll have an actual fight. . . tbh i'd get more into it if a friend got attacked, otherwise it's the whole shock of 'wtf? wasn't expecting this'

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Dont bother with the police son. they are usless and have bigger fish to fry.

Next time he starts counting, kick him in the balls. Period. You are the victim so you are entitled to defend yourself.

I never got beaten up, probably because im a big m/f but also because the only defence for bullies is agression.

You need to tell friends or family that care, and give that little ###### and his friends the once over, I am certain he wont bother you again.

THE ONLY DEFENCE AGAINST A BULLY IS TO BE A BULLY.

If your stuck for "rent a mob" i can be hired for a nominal fee.

Special discount for fellow Neowin members in the month of June. :)

Seriously tho, keep your head up kid. You gotta stand up and be counted or this will never stop.

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Police are absolutely useless. When my mate got beaten up they did **** all about it.

Yeah same then they had the cheek to take away his knife!

Personally I would go shoot them with an air rifle in the head then run off and sell your gun. :p

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Going to the police might get you money too. My sister got assaulted by some chavs in a park, had a picture of the bruises/punched areas on her phone, and the chav got taken to court and lost convincingly, had to give my sister like ?80 or something.

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I can do the "correcting Andy(age 17)" for ya :shiftyninja: , just do a poll on what would neowin want done to him then we'll uploaded to youtube :laugh:. All neowinian for one, one neowinian for all :yes:

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It seems to me as though everyone in the UK has come up with the same conclusion

"The Police are useless"
this is why this country is going down the pan. Everyone in the UK who has posted in here has come to the same conclusion and also come up with the same advice
"Fight Fire with Fire so to speak";

I have never been in this situation really so I wouldn?t know what to do. With the growing Knife culture in this country and in the North East in Particularly I would be scared of getting stabbed and would most likely walk away, I?m not a violent person at all. I have a good mind to send this thread to the Home Office/Government/PM to show him why his country is to put it simply ****ed! I would easily break there legs and arms and set them on fire if there was absolutely no doubt it was them. Yes I am a psycho l:p :p

No one is quite to hard when they are made to dig there own grave with a teaspoon on the middle of the moors at half 3 in the morning with a shot gun in the back of there head. That?s my a;)ice ;)

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two things I don't get, firstly you called these people your mates? Secondly, they have special parks for disabled people now?

Either way, I'd go to the police. Even if they do nothing, at least it has been recognised and logged by them. If people never went to the police they would think there are no problems when looking at crime stats etc and therefore do even less about them and it'll just be a downward spiral.

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The funny thing is however is that the police in the UK ARE useless.

Last year my window got bricked, my dad went up there and they looked at him and went what can we do about it?

They dont care until you say next time somethings gonna happen, then their like then they can press charges agaisnt YOU.

In other words, they dont care at all.

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It's true, the police won't do anything. You obviously know the guy, find out what resources he has, but I say get some 20 year olds or whatever you know to kick the **** outta him. There is honestly no other way around it, because he'll just do it again, you gotta sort that guy out! :D

I know that if I were ever in trouble, I have SO many people at my disposal :|

-Rich-

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Ugh. So many immature and ridiculous people here.

Using violence to fight violence is so backwards I can't believe a bunch of supposed grown ups are suggesting this. Just ignore him, it works the best. God. This might make #3 on my list.

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Ugh. So many immature and ridiculous people here.

Using violence to fight violence is so backwards I can't believe a bunch of supposed grown ups are suggesting this. Just ignore him, it works the best. God. This might make #3 on my list.

Riiiight. You've probably never been in this sort of situation. Or probably in this country for that matter.

My girlfriends just told me to post an example of our experiences. She used to ignore her bullies - they never seemed to go away. They picked on her all the more and got more violent. I faught mine and ended up being called once of the hardest people in our school (it was a rough school at that).

So yes, fighting violence with violence works in most instances. Sheesh. There are some people in this world that go by thinking that everything is happy and Ok. Sometimes, I envy those people; they're so ignorant, or inexperienced.

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Using violence to fight violence is so backwards I can't believe a bunch of supposed grown ups are suggesting this. Just ignore him, it works the best. God. This might make #3 on my list

Ignoring them gets u picked on. Ive seen it happen to others too often.

That is def not the answer to the problem.

Im not immature by the way.

Someone needs to grow up in the real world.

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evo0o Posted Today, 16:48

I'd go to the police, then either 1, demand compensation, or 2, sue them for all they're worth for mental and physical trauma, haha.

:no:

In an ideal world yea, but....

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Some of you who know me on Neowin may be a little surprised at my response to this, however i am talking from my past experiance, and living in the UK and being a local lad and not living in a big city, this is what i did/would do in the same situation:

Work out like hell. Each time you think you cant be assed to work out, think of him coming at you and hitting you and realy making you scared. Think of this and think, you will not allow this to happen again. Always remember this and think of him coming at your mum and hitting her, let it realy get you wound up and think about how you will protect your mum.

All the while you thiking this, work out, do sittups and pushups and any physical exersise which gets the agression and anger out.

After about two weeks from now, since the insident happened, go knock on his door in the middle of the day on a Saturday. If his parents answer, ask nicely if Andy is home. If they say yes, ask if you could speak with him.

When Andy comes to the door, let all that anger that you ahve been thinking about the last couple of weeks come to the surface and let loose. Give him a huge kick in. Kick, punch scream, shout bite, pull hair, anything that you can do to hurt the guy.

Make sure you leave scars on him that will take time to dissapear, then walk away and forget about him. Just hold on to those thoughts of him and make sure you keep working out whilst letting them anger you. it is the best way to get realy buffed up. Thats what i did when i had a huge gang offer me outside because i stopped this guys son from taking my wallet.

At the end of the day you COULD go to the police, who would arrest the kid and slap him on the wrists. Then as soon as he is released he will boast how he got arrested and got away with it, and how you are a wuss etc and will probably beat you up again.

unfortunatly the UK is a nasty and hard place to live and you have to fight with the fighters to earn respect now. So just give him a real good kickin and he will leave you alone. I guarantee this will work.

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I forgot to mention... Do this alone. Dont bring any mates with you or tell anyone about it. Just go alone and beat the crap out of him. That way he cant start trying to get you on your own, because he knows you wont take any more crap.

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