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16 years old boy going out with 13 years old girl?

What is your point of view of a 16 years old boy going out with a 13 years old girl?  

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Des429    1

I wouldn't find it acceptable, although I wouldn't find it outrageous because if your older, a 3 year difference is not much at all. But since she really hasn't matured at this point in her life, I would think of her as still a young child. I think once she matured, it would be acceptable for her to date older guys.

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dead.cell    4,310

personally, thats a bit young to be dating at all. ;)

Back in kindergarten, there were a few kids that were "dating" each other. They'd always hold hands, talk in the corner, go for walks during recess, and kiss when no one was looking.

lol, of course being in kindergarten, it sounds cute. :p

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simsie    4
oh just have sex with her, when else are you going to get a chance to have sex with a thirteen yeard old legally? I would've when I was 16.

Still illegal, its just you'd get charged with underage sex not rape.

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leesmithg    226

Still illegal, its just you'd get charged with underage sex not rape.

Sex with a minor is rape.

It's to do with a law that says a child is not in a fit mind state to make a decision.

Whereas the 16 year old is. So can be charged with rape.

If it's both of them underaged then it's underaged sex.

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Digitalx    17

wouldnt wanna go dating if neowin was a country lol ... John S would be like the john wayne with his winchester rifle chasing off teenage boys :unsure:

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simsie    4
Sex with a minor is rape.

I heard (from PSHE) that a 16 year old can go down to 13 and have it as underage sex, but any lower and it becomes rape or paedophilia.

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acies    0

it really all depends on the people.

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illicit    0

It's acceptable, but a bit wierd.

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Webby    0

When I was 17, this 17 y/o guy was dating a 14 year old. I found it unacceptable at the time and still do.

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Kreuger    107

I say before you're 18, 2 years younger is fine 3 is pushing it but no less so I guess it's alright but I probably wouldn't bother.

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yert*    0

I was unsure hence putting 18.

When I was younger it was 21.

So if it's 16 it must have been tories lowered it to 18 then the socialists to 16.

I think they also lowered lesbians from 18 to 16.

I am still not going to change my mind on underaged sex.

We as homo spaiens are supposed to be forward thinking not lowering ourselves into prehistoric thinking.

There are too many unwanted children and abortions going on without encouraging underaged sexual intercourse.

Thats why we have this chav problem, too many young girls having kids and fathers that could not give a hoot.

You wannabee a dad at 16 go for it, make sure I and the other tax payers don't have to pay for you and you have a job that can support a child in school and a child in nursery.

What the hell is your problem? Since when does going out mean sex? SOME people like to have relationships where sex isn't the only activity they do in the relationship or an activity they don't do at all until they have 1, matured, or 2, married.

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Ravensworth    0

The age difference has nothing to do with it, it's the age period. 13 is too young to be dating anyone.

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Soham    4

that like new tgi fridays commercial junior high principal and ex-student

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PiracyX    11

Id say its shouldnt be happening. I am 22 and my gf is 18. I would be worried if i was going out with a 16 year old but it would still be within the law of consent. 13 is just wrong wrong wrong.....

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The Pink Panther    0

Who cares about the law? Government should have no role in the personal lives of people.

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leesmithg    226

What the hell is your problem? Since when does going out mean sex? SOME people like to have relationships where sex isn't the only activity they do in the relationship or an activity they don't do at all until they have 1, matured, or 2, married.

You obviously cannot read if you ask me what my problem is.

This is the 21st century when condom machines are rife in schools and teenage magazines have articles on how to give good head.

You need to discover a bit more what is happening in the real world.

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Sympozium    0

You obviously cannot read if you ask me what my problem is.

This is the 21st century when condom machines are rife in schools and teenage magazines have articles on how to give good head.

You need to discover a bit more what is happening in the real world.

Pwned.

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CitizenSmif    0

Yeah, to me I think it's normal.

but, both of their parent's should know what is happening on daily basis.

thank you

eh why?

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gazebee_    3

from a US perspective, ive gotta say ive seen a lot of really mature 13 year olds, which would pass for 16 any day. (cos ive just been in the states for the summer) Whereas over back home in Hong Kong, 13 year olds in my school still act like they're in kindergarten. Im going to be 16 next month, and i think its crazy if your gonna date someone so much younger and immature.

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Julius Caro    55

from a US perspective, ive gotta say ive seen a lot of really mature 13 year olds, which would pass for 16 any day. (cos ive just been in the states for the summer) Whereas over back home in Hong Kong, 13 year olds in my school still act like they're in kindergarten. Im going to be 16 next month, and i think its crazy if your gonna date someone so much younger and immature.

Yeah, it's more of a psychological thing

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Deaf_Raiders    0

Well 3 years ago i was 17 and was dating a girl who is 13 and we did 'it' but i was totally ****ed and she led me on.... i mean how can i led her her on if i was ****ed...... it was a 1st time one. We didn't plan it or anything her parents told her it was ok for her... cos she was very very mature... I think its acceptable if he/she is mature we used protecting.... Age is just a number.....

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Martyn    5

Hmm...is a 17 year old going out with a 15 year old acceptable?

It probably is, but I still get the "to young" feeling when I think about it.

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yanowhiz    0

The intentions of a 16year old guy and the intentions of a 13 year old girl are different and, unless the girls parents were aware of what goes on inside the mind of a 16 year old, then they probably won't care.

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deuz    2

its ok as long as there are no sexual relations r involved....kinda like being really good friends wif someone...all above board..

You obviously cannot read if you ask me what my problem is.

This is the 21st century when condom machines are rife in schools and teenage magazines have articles on how to give good head.

You need to discover a bit more what is happening in the real world.

u must b living in a ****** up place....condoms in school wtf...... :no:

also not every one fits ur stereotype.....so each situation should b looked at differently

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Liquid    4

its ok as long as there are no sexual relations r involved....kinda like being really good friends wif someone...all above board..

u must b living in a ****** up place....condoms in school wtf...... :no:

also not every one fits ur stereotype.....so each situation should b looked at differently

Condom machines have been in bathrooms in high schools in BC for a long time. They rather us have safe sex than non safe sex.

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