ACTIONpack Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I left my friends place to the grocery store to get some food because I haven't eat anything. Well a guy was in the parking lot try to get people to pay him to fix there car bumper or what not. So I guess when the guy saw my front bumper with a big dent in he ask me to pull over about my bumper. I told the guy that I can't pay anything to get it fix because I'm not working. Was laid off a few weeks ago. The guy said that to get it would cost $600 at the shop but he will do it for a hundred. Again, I told the guy sorry but I'm not working and can't pay anything at the time to get it fix. so after a few minutes of going back and forward, he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store. I was sand off it about it but I was like okay but I'm not working and can't pay much of nothing he fix the bumper which he did a good job only took him 3 minutes tops. I went into the store got my food and took out a $20. Went out and gave the guy a $20. He got upset and I was like I can't pay much of it. Not working and I told him that. He got upset and said that I was an ass and I said sorry but money is tight and I told you I can't pay much to nothing for it. Was I wrong for only giving him a $20. Should I have not giving anything to him? I could pay him over 100 but I don't need when my next job will be. I was upfront with him about my jobless. He was pretty forceful to do the work. Did a good job with the fixing the bumper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Montage Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 No, he was wrong for harassing you into something you didn't want. Gerowen, Dotdot, ditoax and 4 others 7 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACTIONpack Posted April 1, 2014 Author Share Posted April 1, 2014 No, he was wrong for harassing you into something you didn't want. should I have not gave him anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cork1958 Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 If the guy really said, "he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store" then to bad for him. You gave him what you could. If the guy didn't really say that, then I'd suggest you grow a pair and should've just told the guy to f**k off! AsherGZ, Draconian Guppy and DConnell 3 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(Account no longer active) Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 'he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store'. Was a minimum price set? If not, nothing to worry about. Get on with life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draconian Guppy Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 If you didn't want the job done, should've said just No but he made a mistake saying pay anything so... If the guy really said, "he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store" then to bad for him. You gave him what you could. If the guy didn't really say that, then I'd suggest you grow a pair and should've just told the guy to f**k off! 'he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store'. Was a minimum price set? If not, nothing to worry about. Get on with life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zhangm Supervisor Posted April 1, 2014 Supervisor Share Posted April 1, 2014 I'm sure he's disappointed that he didn't milk you for more, but that's the point - he's trying to make you feel like you shortchanged him for a service that you didn't really want in the first place. He's happy with getting any money out of you. T3X4S 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draconian Guppy Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 Out of curiosity can we see what the dent was? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Montage Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 You said you would decide. You decided. His problem, not yours. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACTIONpack Posted April 1, 2014 Author Share Posted April 1, 2014 'he said let me fix it and you can decide what you can pay when you get out of the grocery store'. Was a minimum price set? If not, nothing to worry about. Get on with life.no price was set. He was making a lot from other people for doing it. I said no many time but he would not let go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raa Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 What about a payment plan? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACTIONpack Posted April 1, 2014 Author Share Posted April 1, 2014 Out of curiosity can we see what the dent was? I can get a before and after in a few hours Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exotoxic Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 he let you decided what to pay and you did, personally i would have decided on 0 :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Warwagon MVC Posted April 1, 2014 MVC Share Posted April 1, 2014 I would have told him, While i'm in the grocery store stay the #### away from my vehicle or i'm calling the cops. MikeChipshop, Shiranui, Dotdot and 4 others 7 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiranui Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 He probably goes around kicking in people's bumpers just to generate business. farmeunit 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Montage Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 He probably goes around kicking in people's bumper just to generate business. Here's the thing with a debate - debate facts, don't make up pointless bullpoop to further an argument, as it just makes you seem unable to contribute in a proper way. Nick H. and AsherGZ 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GotBored Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 If it took him like 3 mins than $20 is pretty good! ditoax and blerk 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick H. Supervisor Posted April 1, 2014 Supervisor Share Posted April 1, 2014 From what you have said, you were a bit silly to say, "ok." You should have stood your ground and said, "I have no job, I can't pay anything, therefore it doesn't matter what your service is worth; I cannot pay." But look ahead. Will this impact you in any way other than morally/ethically? You've learnt from your mistake, you (hopefully) won't make it again. Know your limits - whether they be physical, financial, mental - and don't go overboard. (Y) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shawnsdada Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I used to work at a Walmart and had to deal with people like that on a daily basis. Crack, meth and heroin addicts. What's sad is people like that obviously have skills that could get them good jobs, but that rather stick needles in their arns Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lingwo Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 Took him 3 minutes? If it really did take him that long, i think you could have fixed it yourself. To be honest though i'd have still said no at the "pay what you want" thing. A bloke offering to fix your bumper on the street is pretty weird anyway. Well at least it would be in the UK. spikey_richie and Dick Montage 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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123456789A Posted April 2, 2014 Share Posted April 2, 2014 $20 is enough. If you were seriously thinking of giving the guy $100, you could buy a new bumper cover for around that much depending on your car model. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blerk Posted April 2, 2014 Share Posted April 2, 2014 $20 for that? Hell, I'd be struggling to hand over $10, especially as it's the sort of fix that I could most likely do by myself. For the $300 he said you'd be paying at an auto shop, I'd expect some repair of the scrapes as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAZMINATOR Posted April 2, 2014 Share Posted April 2, 2014 Took him 3 minutes? If it really did take him that long, i think you could have fixed it yourself. To be honest though i'd have still said no at the "pay what you want" thing. A bloke offering to fix your bumper on the street is pretty weird anyway. Well at least it would be in the UK. Fix the dent takes a few minutes but not the scratches part... because you will have to sand, primer, paint, etc depends on paint type on that car... which takes you to do that in a few days so you make sure it looks perfect and match the paint on the rest of the car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hum Posted April 2, 2014 Share Posted April 2, 2014 A guy backed into my Honda, in a parking lot. Gave me $20 :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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