PA mom who vanished in 2002 found in Florida

[Hum]

LITITZ, PA ? A central Pennsylvania woman who mysteriously disappeared after dropping off her children for school 11 years ago has surfaced in Florida and has told police she traveled there on a whim with homeless hitchhikers, slept under bridges and survived by scavenging food and panhandling, authorities said Wednesday.

Brenda Heist, 53, had been declared legally dead, Lititz Borough Police Det. John Schofield said. The detective said he met with her in Florida on Monday and she expressed shame and apologized for what she did to her family.

Heist was going through an amicable divorce in 2002 when she got some bad news about future housing plans, Schofield said. She was crying in a park when some strangers befriended her, then invited her to join them as they began a month-long hitchhiking journey to south Florida, he said.

Her ex-husband got the courts to declare her legally dead two years ago and he has remarried, Schofield said.

"She has a birth certificate and a death certificate so she's got a long ways to make this right again," Schofield said. "She's got to take it slow with her family, I'm sure, and it's going to be a long process."

Inside her home the day Heist disappeared, dinner was defrosting and the laundry was half done. Police located her car in a neighboring county but none of her personal belongings were taken.

When Schofield called to meet with her ex-husband Lee Heist and their daughter, they assumed he would be notifying them that her remains were found, the detective said.

Lee Heist struggled financially after his wife disappeared, losing his job and his house, the detective said. She had been a bookkeeper at a car dealership.

Heist turned herself in to police in Key Largo, Fla., on Friday, regarding some outstanding warrants, and then informed them she was a missing person. She had apparently been homeless for the past two years, most recently living in a tent community run by a social service agency.

"She said she was at the end of her rope, she was tired of running," said Schofield.

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[Growled Member]

She should run and hide.

[siah1214]

So scummy to just abandon your family like that.

Though part of me is kind of glad to know that if I wanted I could disappear and people would just think that I'd died. Always good to have a plan Z.

[Hum]

^ Why ? People are individuals and not slaves to their families.

[siah1214]

^ Why ? People are individuals and not slaves to their families.

If you give birth to them, they're your responsibility til they're grown.

Or you put them up for adoption because you know they can't take care of themselves and you can't either.

[Hum]

^ bullfeathers.

As long as she left the kids with someone who can take care of them, she is free to go.

[fusi0n]

**** yeah.. i've wanted to just **** it and drive off so many times lol

[Growled Member]

^ bullfeathers.

As long as she left the kids with someone who can take care of them, she is free to go.

I totally disagree. A parent's place is to take care of the kids that they bring into this world. It's not about you any longer. People who leave their families like this are totally selfish.

[Hum]

^ Then why are there millions on 'government' support ? Relying on the taxpayers to pay for all their kids needs ... hmmm ?

By that logic, no one should have to support someone else's thoughtless reproduction habits.