Don't have sex with your ex

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Grand Master

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I'm adamant for sticking to my word and others to theirs. So whether the choice is theirs or mine, I make sure it is final. I'm also a very blunt speaker and know how to hit nerves.

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Blunt speaker you say?

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Grand Master

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Yeah, I've had sex with my Ex(s) many times as I'm friends with almost all of them still. A few of them even after they were married. Whoops.

The last time was about 4 years ago. Now, I doubt I would just because I want someone new.

Grand Master

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Got ya, correct me if I'm wrong but kids completely change things, especially if you are playing the step dad ?

fml... this will interest you... I have just started this kind of romance with a girl, day after (today) my ex is texting me.... apologising and wanting to meet up and get a friendship going ect... fml... I wanted to not talk to her... but what am I to do... I couldnt say no..

Grand Master

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fml... this will interest you... I have just started this kind of romance with a girl, day after (today) my ex is texting me.... apologising and wanting to meet up and get a friendship going ect... fml... I wanted to not talk to her... but what am I to do... I couldnt say no..

Look at the bright side of things: at least you're wanted! :p

Right now I'm single and feel left out of in romance matters. Then again I've not been single for long so who knows. ^^

Either way, I do have a friends with benefits kind of thing going on, so I'm mostly content. :turned:

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fml... this will interest you... I have just started this kind of romance with a girl, day after (today) my ex is texting me.... apologising and wanting to meet up and get a friendship going ect... fml... I wanted to not talk to her... but what am I to do... I couldnt say no..

Hmm difficult one if you still have feelings for her, but then you have to look at the new gf and her feelings if she finds out / you drop her for your ex

Then you have to think, does you ex know about your new gf, going to get you to dump her, then end things with you again too, just out of spite ?

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Previous ex was almost 20yrs ago, I wanted to get back with her after we broke up only because, the ladies I was dating were

no match for the awesome sex the ex & I used to have. Anyhow after a few years I found somebody else and married her.

I found my ex on facebook, was always curious to find out what ever happened to her, turns out she got married to the goofy co-worker

she left me for, they have 2 chubby kids. so no sex with the Ex.

I did find another ex (my Hippie chic ex) in between my ex and the wife, and did have sex with her one more time, we were both single, and we decided to remain friends, but

not with benefits, so I saw no reason to continue seeing her, then it got weird a couple years later, When I picked her up hitchhiking when I was with my wife.

The wife found it amusing for me to pick up an ex girlfriend hitchhiking who dressed like a hippie, The ex moved to Ontario.

I also found another ex (High School sweetheart) and she grew to be one of those fat fugly women, you see. Like my god wtf happened? You used to be so cute in school.

now you let yourself go. She too left me for some Army dude, who ended up divorcing her after they had 3 kids. His new fiance is hot, I should go and have sex with her, for revenge!

Funny stuff, thanks for sharing. When I went through my divorce it was really difficult because we had sex after we separated but then she got re-married and pregnant within two years. We had a daughter and when I went to pick her up and drop her off it was like having my head and heart put in a vice seeing her with her new husband and my daughter. - Anyway times change how you look and feel about your X. When my daughter was older and I'd picked her up at the house I was glad to leave because I saw how miserable her husband was looking and I remembered how much she drove me nuts. When I see her now, which is not often, I just sort of laugh and think about how crazy the illusion of love can have on somebody. Moral of my story. Don't have sex with your X.

Grand Master

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yeah i did for revenge lol

She dumped me for some other guy

after he dumped her ass she was back messaging me wanting to get back together

she invited me out for dinner, she paid for it all, we went back to her had a romantic night, had sex all night

then i told her she must be insanely stupid if i was gonna go back out with her and left and never looked back

MUHAHAHAHA lol

Grand Master

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yeah i did for revenge lol

She dumped me for some other guy

after he dumped her ass she was back messaging me wanting to get back together

she invited me out for dinner, she paid for it all, we went back to her had a romantic night, had sex all night

then i told her she must be insanely stupid if i was gonna go back out with her and left and never looked back

MUHAHAHAHA lol

Dude, badly played, you should've at least hit that a couple of nights more, take photos and upload :p THEN tell her to **** off!

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