Have you ever had an actual gf?

[XanoZuke]

Yeah :D 7 months now :3

[Jason S. Global Moderator]

Been w/ my wonderful girl for 4.5 years now :D

[gunky]

I'm asking this because I'm convinced I'm a loser...never had one :p

I've had quite a few. The first real relationship I had ended up lasting about two and a half years. That girl gave me a lot of self confidence (and fashion advice) and it made things a whole lot easier for me on the dating scene. I guess what I'm trying to say is that self confidence definitely results in a better reaction from the ladies.

[Jason S. Global Moderator]

I've had quite a few. The first real relationship I had ended up lasting about two and a half years. That girl gave me a lot of self confidence (and fashion advice) and it made things a whole lot easier for me on the dating scene. I guess what I'm trying to say is that self confidence definitely results in a better reaction from the ladies.

thats the main thing girls look for is confidence. be proud of being a dorky nerd! :p

[Tech_Dude_5000]

Where? :whistle:

if hes smart he'll go to eirther :

• italy
  
• or some other place in eurpoe.
  

[Narlzac85]

Nope, I'm 20 and not even looking or caring to get into a relationship. Some people are concerned about me, but to hell with them, I have goals that I want to accomplish and I don't want anyone to interfere. Don't start a relationship just because you think you are supposed to have one. I believe that things will work out eventually and I'll be happier because of it.

[RuudJacobs.NET]

Nope. I'm 18 and searching .. :)

[chimera963]

One, and a couple of rejections. But I suppose I'm only 16, but it's damn frustrating.

[_sphinx_]

Where? :whistle:

Mcgill in Montreal, Quebec...I don't speak a word of french, but I'll find a way to deal with hot Quebecons!!

[Krome]

I am very ****ed off seeing people at young age 14 or 15 even post in this topic... I think this one topic belongs to people age 18 and up... :angry: :crazy:

I've never had a g/f. It started out that I was too shy all throughout my school years. Then, I got caught up in my studies @ college. Now, I'm caught up in my career. LOL After a while, I lost interest and I'm not going nuts about it. lol! I'll live... Oh yeah, I've also had moments where I got to know the mind & lives of women too well and it wasn't attractive to me. I got turned off a bit! HAHA!!! It's also difficult finding a quality woman...

...and so I died alone...

the end. lol

I can relate to what you're saying... In this day in age, I don't think "quality woman" exist... These girls get themselves screwed at the age of 13 or even 12... And you can see it happenning in myspace.com too...

[_sphinx_]

^^Teens 14+ now allowed? come on...most people (MOST) over 18 should (and I use this term loosely) should have had a gf by now. I'm 16 btw.

One, and a couple of rejections. But I suppose I'm only 16, but it's damn frustrating.

tell me about it...ugh

Rejections are much much harder to take than break ups. I shouldn't know 'cause I never had a gf (16) but lsecond time (last time) I was rejected by a girl who I was getting really intimate with, I was devastated...In the end, I had a HUGE fight with her and she tainted my already f'd up reputation in school...thank God this ****'s over.

[flapjackman176]

yup two years and counting.. :D

[Colin-uk Veteran]

Yeah, only two, one i was pretty serious about too, damn you for bringing it up :p

I've had quite a few. The first real relationship I had ended up lasting about two and a half years. That girl gave me a lot of self confidence (and fashion advice) and it made things a whole lot easier for me on the dating scene. I guess what I'm trying to say is that self confidence definitely results in a better reaction from the ladies.

Thats actually quite true, one of my ex's gave me quite a lot of confidence, im a lot less shy than i used to be, but still a little :p

I am very ****ed off seeing people at young age 14 or 15 even post in this topic... I think this one topic belongs to people age 18 and up... :angry: :crazy:

Uh, why?

[Chosen One]

yup, i started dating at the age of 16, and im 23 now, been with my g/f for a year and almost a half.

[Krome]

Because people under the age of 18 (many) do not realize their responsibilities... I've seen many tenagers parents... I've seen many suicidal behavior at a younger age... for the lack of maturity and responsibilites thereof, they tend to want to commit suicide when they can't handle their problems... But after that age, they tend to be more mature... when you are at a young age and going on dates and stuff, things tends to get nasty from there.. .your life can go downhill from there...

[earlcaulley]

I've had 3. But belive me, I'm not bragging, the first two treated me like garbage, and I wish I never made the mistake of trusting them with my heart. My current girlfriend is amazing! I wish I met her before.

For all you guys who think you are losers because you've never had a girlfriend, you're not! You simply haven't made the mistakes I have. Hang in there!

[NeoXY]

2 sigh....just broke up with the second one a few weeks ago (it was pretty serious and all too..gone on for about 2 years :()....damn racists?

...yeah damn racists

I'm not worried about getting another GF or anything, if it comes around, it comes around. If not, the single life is awfully sweet too :)

But just miss her awfully alot when she's not around :(

[Corris Veteran]

I'm sorry to hear that mate, It's sad, but you will find new love :)

i hope so, im going to have to see my ex atleast 2 days a week till we both go off to uni (social things and such like)

its just so hard to find a good geek these days, im thinking about setting up camp in my college library :laugh:

problem with girls these days is that most of them runa round getting with every guy they see, i dunno if i have high standards or anything, but i really hate that stuff

[Ultomato]

I am very ****ed off seeing people at young age 14 or 15 even post in this topic... I think this one topic belongs to people age 18 and up... :angry: :crazy:

I can relate to what you're saying... In this day in age, I don't think "quality woman" exist... These girls get themselves screwed at the age of 13 or even 12... And you can see it happenning in myspace.com too...

I hear you man... peer pressure is bad :no:

[DirtyLarry Veteran]

:huh:

[_bobcat_ Veteran]

thats the main thing girls look for is confidence. be proud of being a dorky nerd! :p

No No NOOOOOO!!!!

i hope so, im going to have to see my ex atleast 2 days a week till we both go off to uni (social things and such like)

its just so hard to find a good geek these days, im thinking about setting up camp in my college library :laugh:

problem with girls these days is that most of them runa round getting with every guy they see, i dunno if i have high standards or anything, but i really hate that stuff

Well most guys are like that too actually (in my experience) but not all guys (and not all girls).

Why do people always have to make such sweeping generalisations in these threads?

I have never had a gf by the way, but I have had lots of bfs. Two were fairly serious and the current one, I'm living with.

[Rix]

2 sigh....just broke up with the second one a few weeks ago (it was pretty serious and all too..gone on for about 2 years :()....damn racists?

...yeah damn racists

I'm not worried about getting another GF or anything, if it comes around, it comes around. If not, the single life is awfully sweet too :)

But just miss her awfully alot when she's not around :(

She was racist or her friends/family..?

I never have serious girlfriends though.. I don't think i've been in a relationship in tha last year that's lasted more than 2 weeks :laugh:

I just get bored and move on

[thetoaster3]

The thread title makes it seem as if everyone at Neowin is sad and makes up girlfriends or dresses up their Linux boxes and kiss them goodnight! :p

[sharpy2k4]

ive had a few, currently have one thats 3 months in 2 days, which is serious, i hope lasts a LONG LONG time, (part from my week in greece with mates :whistle: )

ive had another which was also 3 months, at beginning of the year

others :

saw a girl every now and then nothing serious for 2 months

same but 3 weeks

6 months in year 8

6 months same girl in year 7

yeah im 17 now :rofl:

[Orange]

I've had about 3-4 now all been pretty long ones..2 years etc but so far i'm single. Single for 3months and loving it :woot: