Have you ever had an actual gf?


  

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Nope, not realy. I'm 20 :( and w/o luck

- The first girl to ask me when I was 14 was nice... But I been STUPID, and didn't call her back . . .

- The 3 girls that I was looking for said no.

- 2 or 3 come see me and I was not interested

- another came but I was looking for one that said no a week after, so I loosed a chance

- I "felt" in love for a girl, the prob was, i'm Canadian, she live in France... (Frigging MSN when you are young and stupid)

- The lastest that interest me was unfortunatly too young for me (15). But I knew later that she got feelings on her Teacher (25 yr) so... :blink:

Aww... i'm just not lucky...

One day.............................

Had one true girlfriend my whole life. Started dating her in 1986. Been together ever since. Married for 11 years.

Thats awesome, congrats on that. I noticed many young people think long term relationships (or marriage) are happy 24/7 (like the movies) but it isn't.. lol.. there's the bumps here and there but its part of the deal, in the end it works out in most cases. Btw I'm only 22 and saying this, I know I'm still "young" but being in a 6 yr relationship and living together with ma partner I get the idea.. lol :)

The thread title makes it seem as if everyone at Neowin is sad and makes up girlfriends or dresses up their Linux boxes and kiss them goodnight! :p

Yeah!

It's like the kid thinks that we all have made up girlfriends, or those virtual girlfriends on your desktop.

He will find his niche one day.

:whistle:

What a GF ?!? Guardian Force ...Talk about Lol.. Like thats in like Final Fantasy, Like a game..lolz..

On other news. Yup .. Girlfriends help to build the confidence up.. Longest one being 2yrs.. Ahh it was grand..

He said don't li:p:p

Had one true girlfriend my whole life. Started dating her in 1986. Been together ever since. Married for 11 years.

that's awesome. Good for you!

Sort of :p

I got really close to one girl, but the problem was she was also by best friend, so in the end we decided it would not work. She did say yes when I asked her out though, but on reflection changed her mind :/.

She was the only girl I have ever asked out. I like other girls though, but they are all taken. I dont know why girls dig self confidence either, I aint confident, and confident to me seem's like arrogance in some cases.

I can't speak for all women, but it's not the confidence, but lack of it, that may be a problem. What I mean is that you don't need to be obviously confident, but you should have some sense of self worth. If you don't believe in yourself, why should anyone else?

It's annoying when you have to be the one always doing the asking or the first to do anything. I used to know someone who'd always make me go in first when we arrived late for a lecture, it was infuriating that he acted like such a coward.

My current bf isn't particularly confident, for example in social situations, but he is happy with himself as a person and won't allow anyone to bully him.

Most girls lack confidence anyway, so they won't make the first move.

Yes, had many, and I can tell ya they are the best and worst things in your life ;)

Anyhow, as for the first post. You think you are a loser cos you've never had a girlfriend. Not having a girlfriend doesn't make you a loser.

However, coming online and making a thread about never having had a girlfriend, and how much value you attribute to having never had one? That kinda makes you a loser.

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