Have you ever had an actual gf?


  

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She was racist or her friends/family..?

I never have serious girlfriends though.. I don't think i've been in a relationship in tha last year that's lasted more than 2 weeks :laugh:

I just get bored and move on

Her mom...:/ I'm Chinese and shes white....guess she had a problem with me :/

Im 16, ive had one propper girl friend that lasted over year,

waved bye bye cos she kept saying that she was hearing voices, and she was suicidal, then one day she just turns round and says "oh sorry you didnt really believe me did you? i only said it to try and see how you reacted"

note: she kept that sharrade up for several months so i just though " OH **** it you bitch"

that was about 8 months ago now, and never had a girlfriend since :(, made out with a few girls like but not gone out with any :(, but im hopefully working on that!

ste

I'm married, so yes I've had a girlfriend. My wife and I went out for 2 years before we got married.

Apart from her I've had 3 other serious girlfriend.

Also to the people here that haven't had a partner yet, just relax it will happen.

I am very ****ed off seeing people at young age 14 or 15 even post in this topic... I think this one topic belongs to people age 18 and up... :angry: :crazy:

I lol @ you... Felt so strongly about it you had to use the *angry* and *crazy* smilie eh? I had my first girlfriend when I was twelve (along with alot of other 12 year olds with girlfriends) nobody (around here) did anything sexual at 12... its just when you moved to a bigger school and theres lots of people doing different things. I had a few girlfriends at 12 actually :p Whats wrong with that? I dont see anything wrong with a couple of 12 year olds kissing....

Now, at 13 I lose my virginity :p I personally think it was too young...

Anyway, yes I have, but I dont really 'do' the whole girlfriend thing anymore.

My story's a lot similar to RangerLG's....only diff is, I started dating my girlfriend (now wife) in 1989....married in 1995, and been happily married for 11 years.

Bob :p

Glad to see I am not the only long timer here. Of course I was graduating High School in '89.

I can't speak for all women, but it's not the confidence, but lack of it, that may be a problem. What I mean is that you don't need to be obviously confident, but you should have some sense of self worth. If you don't believe in yourself, why should anyone else?

It's annoying when you have to be the one always doing the asking or the first to do anything. I used to know someone who'd always make me go in first when we arrived late for a lecture, it was infuriating that he acted like such a coward.

My current bf isn't particularly confident, for example in social situations, but he is happy with himself as a person and won't allow anyone to bully him.

Most girls lack confidence anyway, so they won't make the first move.

I have a bit of confidence, but only in certain situations. People do find me quite funny, so that give's me a lot of confidence. My confidence sort of depletes quite a bit when I am in large groups, and also when I have something on my mind.

I know what you mean when you say it is annoying to always be the one doing the asking, but I dont have any qualms about doing that, as long as they participate as well so I feel like they actually want to do something!

I also hate the way every single girl I like is taken. Either I have good taste or I am just unlucky.

Glad to see I am not the only long timer here. Of course I was graduating High School in '89.

Way to go gramps :p

Nah, J/K J/K

im a playa, not a lover ;) :D

I'm considering replacing the quote in my sig with this one :laugh:

I have a bit of confidence, but only in certain situations. People do find me quite funny, so that give's me a lot of confidence. My confidence sort of depletes quite a bit when I am in large groups, and also when I have something on my mind.

Aren't all normal people like that?!

Glad to see I am not the only long timer here. Of course I was graduating High School in '89.

Well, so was I....we started dating in October '88 (my Homecoming)....she was a freshman, I was a senior...you & I are probably pretty close in age (36 in November).....

Bob

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