When did you lose your virginity?

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I had sexual contact with another guy who was 12 when I was 7 years old, and various times some sexual contact messing around later on in life.

Lost my Virginity when I was 20, to a guy i had dated just because I was sick of waiting.

All i can say is, either just loose it to someone to get over it and sleep with multiple people for better sexual experience/knowledge; or do the route of saving your virginity and possiblly getting married only to find out you both don't do good in the sack with each other, possibly leading to marrital problems, or if lucky leading to more intamency.

I would say masturbation and oral sex are key to learning each other's needs/wants before ****ing, and endurance/whatnot.

Those waiting up and beyond 23: disturbing, for a variaty of reasons, go loose your virginity already, because it honestly looks bad to people you date who are not prudes/religious/like you. It also affects your performance in life, as you are more unsure about yourself.

But one warning: once you loose your virginity, it is gone, and like a drug you will usually want moar.

Don't feel that way, that is an accomplisment, at same time you are a freak, lol; don't worry to most people anyone who ****s over 20 people in their lifetime is either awesome or looked at like a ######.

But it also depends on your view of sex, intamency and how they bind in a relationship. For me sex is important, if I don't connect/get satisfied sexually, I will not have a relationship with that person. Which is why sex during dating/whatnot is important to me.

Way, way, way TMI.

it has happened for me.

Though a girl once kissed me on the cheek.

But I don't know if it counts, because I was startled when big wasp that flew at me and I tripped over her skipping rope and her lip pressed against my cheek...

I can remember it like it was yesterday :rolleyes:

wat?

Does no one else think it is completely hilarious that people are posting "15 & 1/2" as their age? Counting 1/2 years is what 7-year-olds do! :rofl:

My virginity got lost in college. Haven't found it since.

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Roger H. Veteran

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Technically i was 11 (she was 13) - my best friend. We had health class and we were curious after school and so we tried it out. LOL I was messing around at 7yrs old though, didn't know what i was doing tho!

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Sir Topham Hatt

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All i can say is, either just loose it to someone to get over it and sleep with multiple people for better sexual experience/knowledge; or do the route of saving your virginity and possiblly getting married only to find out you both don't do good in the sack with each other, possibly leading to marrital problems, or if lucky leading to more intamency.

This isn't quite right though. If you LOVE that person then it won't matter that they aren't that great to begin with (not that you would have anyone to compare them with), as you are being intimate with that particular person. You sound like you go out and have sex with people just to gain experience.

To me, those people who are waiting are stronger than those who cannot wait. They have more self control surely? I mean, those who are regularly having sex, can you easily give it up for a few months? Or does it become an addiction like cigarettes?

Those waiting up and beyond 23: disturbing, for a variaty of reasons, go loose your virginity already, because it honestly looks bad to people you date who are not prudes/religious/like you.

Yes, in your opinion. However, those who have decided to wait (good on ya :p), it actually makes you more appealing to women as nobody else has touched your beef, so to speak. I mean, let's face it, men seem to like taking a girl's virginity, so do you not think it is the other way round?

On a similar note, those who are waiting wouldn't date someone who sees them as "disturbing", simple as. They will probably find someone with the same view.

It also affects your performance in life, as you are more unsure about yourself.

Huh? Not having sex affects performance on life? I don't think so :rofl:

Then again, maybe it affected your performance, so you think it will affect everyones. . .

But one warning: once you loose your virginity, it is gone, and like a drug you will usually want moar.

Usually, but not always. Self control is a good skill in life ;)

Don't feel that way, that is an accomplisment, at same time you are a freak, lol; don't worry to most people anyone who ****s over 20 people in their lifetime is either awesome or looked at like a ######.

Yeah? I was once on a TV programme about someone who had a bet that he could have sex with over 200 women. WHen he got up to the 80's, he met someone he wanted to marry. He did and everything was great, but the bet was still on and he carried on. Suffice to say, his marriage didn't last long. How sad.

What people don't realise is that sooner or later, the more different people you are intimately with, the less feeling you will have. Not physical feeling. For instance, take the Playboy daddy, Hugh Hefner. The only way he can "get off" now is by masturbating to gay porn, as sex is nothing special anymore.

But it also depends on your view of sex, intamency and how they bind in a relationship. For me sex is important, if I don't connect/get satisfied sexually, I will not have a relationship with that person. Which is why sex during dating/whatnot is important to me.

Although everyone is different and I agree to an extent, I also think this is sad.

What would you do if your partner couldn't have sex because of a physical disability that they got later in life? Would you not be able to continue your life with them? For me, sex will only be associated with love, not lust. You can have sex without love, which is what most people do these days, but believe it or not, you can also have love without sex. If you can't have love without sex then that's just sad :(

Don't get me wrong, I don't mean to pick directly on you, but just everything you said was, in my opinion, not great.

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Southern Patriot

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on a side note, the age at which this happens seems to be dropping each generation doesnt it

Not sure where you get that idea. 100+ years ago, it wasn't uncommon for girls to get married and have children in their early teens.

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Tech Star

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What the problem is?

For me.. 15 my buddies girlfriend...

I'm in the friends zone, and I don't know how to get out of it. She doesn't think of me that way, but she confides in me and all that stuff. :/ So she dates other people.

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andrewbares

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I'm in the friends zone, and I don't know how to get out of it. She doesn't think of me that way, but she confides in me and all that stuff. :/ So she dates other people.

Ugh I hateee that :/ Honestly the only reason she's not dating you is because she's not physically attracted to you, there's nothing you can do about that. She likes everything else about you probably, but she doesn't like your looks. That's what I've learned from my experiences.

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vincent

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I think 13-14, cant recall

I'm in the friends zone, and I don't know how to get out of it. She doesn't think of me that way, but she confides in me and all that stuff. :/ So she dates other people.

If you can't be just her friend, i'd cut off contact with her, explain to her that is' hard for you to be jsut her friend while seeing her date other people.

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Ayepecks

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Those waiting up and beyond 23: disturbing, for a variaty of reasons, go loose your virginity already, because it honestly looks bad to people you date who are not prudes/religious/like you. It also affects your performance in life, as you are more unsure about yourself.

Oh goodness, shush up. It doesn't do a damn thing for anyone's performance in life, nor does it "look bad."

I lost mine at 21. I had more than enough opportunities in high school to lose it, but simply wasn't what I was looking for at the time. Can't blame anyone for losing it early or late -- entirely up to the person. If you want to wait until you're 100, go for it; if you want to lose it ASAP, go for it.

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