Bryan R. Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 I don't even... who spends enough time staring at and studying their genitalia, and then spends hours trying to find someone else's whose looks the same... seriously? Everybody's is different, and if it works, who cares? No guy is going to give a crap--in fact, don't plenty of you relish in building a mental library over the years of different colours, shapes, etc of breasts and lady bits? :laugh: She needed therapy, not surgery. It's really disturbing and depressing how acceptable major surgery is for cosmetics when it's quite clear the problems are psychological. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tekkerson Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 It's really disturbing and depressing how acceptable major surgery is for cosmetics when it's quite clear the problems are psychological. Homosexuality used to be considered a psychological problem not too long ago. How can judge how a person genuinely feels? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charisma Veteran Posted July 24, 2012 Veteran Share Posted July 24, 2012 Homosexuality used to be considered a psychological problem not too long ago. How can judge how a person genuinely feels? What does that have to do with "getting unnecessary surgery"? Hint: My tax dollars should not be spent at the whim of someone's feelings... This has nothing to do with homosexuality. Even now that she's had the surgery, she's still not happy about it. That and the dreams she had about it and the level of obsession all point to the fact that yes, she has a psychological issue that needs to be addressed. The surgery is not addressing the underlying problem here, and therefore was unnecessary. oliver182 and Bryan R. 2 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 This one isn't an imaginary condition - it's called BDD, body dysmorphic disorder. In the absense of a true (not perceived) labial hypertrophy (overgrowth of the labia) it makes the most sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krome Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 40 year old virgins might have perfect vagina :ninja: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bryan R. Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 Homosexuality used to be considered a psychological problem not too long ago. How can judge how a person genuinely feels? Yeah, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dead.cell Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 The pursuit of happiness. We all chase it, and while there's nothing wrong with wanting to perfect the human body, doing it by mutilating yourself isn't exactly the answer. I mean, yes, it's your body, do with it what you will, but these women that look towards others to see what makes THEM happy or "beautiful" are just chasing a dream really. You can't buy happiness because if that were true, don't you think all those celebrities would just be fine and dandy? And we know that couldn't be further from the truth. Learn to love yourselves people and take care of each other. You only get one life, why spend it being afraid to have fun and enjoy yourself? If not now, when? Charisma 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pmrd Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 She could get the surgery she wants but that won't make her more attractive because she's still going to be ****ing crazy. She needs brain surgery. A lot of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason S. Global Moderator Posted August 1, 2012 Global Moderator Share Posted August 1, 2012 These comments make me sad. Part of the reason this is happening is because we are all guilty of placing value in beauty and teaching that to girls and women throughout their lives. We do it every time we tell our daughters, "Aww, you look so pretty." Our whole lives we are taught that being pretty is a good thing -- something to strive for. Sadly, it's part of the reason we have rises in cosmetic surgeries like breast augmentation and labia reduction; there can be a lot of pressure on women to make themselves look better, whatever that means to them. Not only that, but how many of you have ever made fun of someone who you thought was physically unattractive? No one wants to be made fun of or looked down upon. Most people don't want to be seen as unattractive, especially when we as a society put so much emphasis and value on it. in the end, though, i dont know a single guy that wants to have sex with a bunch of beef curtains flapping in the breeze. sorry, but that's disgusting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 in the end, though, i dont know a single guy that wants to have sex with a bunch of beef curtains flapping in the breeze. sorry, but that's disgusting. If he's that narrow-minded then she could do a lot better anyhow. Charisma 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*RedBull* Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 I have no problem with a female tightening her vagina for me after age 26. They tend to get a little worn out after a while, 26 is a good age to make things new again. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 Keegle exercises are cheaper. Charisma 1 Share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason S. Global Moderator Posted August 2, 2012 Global Moderator Share Posted August 2, 2012 you guys are missing the point. this isnt about tightening, but trimming the inner labia. all the keegles in the world arent going to help that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocM Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 I know - I was just saying that surgery should be the last resort for tightening, and it's cheaper. As for hypertrophic labia; there are cases where surgery is necessary, but that is not what we're talking about. In far more cases women are seeking some unrealistic look they may have seen in porn (where a lot of labia surgery is done to better display the vaginal entrance) or some body dysmorphic issue where the problems are all between the ears - not the legs. A downside to these surgeries, other than infection and anesthesia risks, is the possibility of a loss of sensation due to nerves being cut. This is rare with properly done procedures (and there are several eays to do the 'trim'), but as we have seen with other plastic surgery horror stories not all of them are properly done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*RedBull* Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 I was just giving my two cents on the tightening. But keegle sounds good. I love it when a vagina squeezes my penis. As for the labia, I like a long labia sliding on my shaft. So whatever. I think the ladies are crazy doing the for the surgery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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